08-12-2013, 15:56
People that comment on your physical appearance have issues of their own. There's no reason why anyone should draw negative attention to your breasts, especially when they know it could hurt you.
I have been insulted on multiple occasions because of my breast size, by both men and women. But none of these people met the American standard for beauty-- if anything, they were quite unattractive...
I'll give you one example: a few years back, I was sitting in a room with a woman that informed me that I wasn't "shaped like a woman". Amusingly enough, she did this in front of a man who had told me in private how attractive he thought I was. I told a close friend of mine about the insult, who replied with astonishment, "Who is she to say anything about another woman's body? She's shaped like a box!"
Now, it's not right to tell another woman she's shaped like a box, either. But this discussion was completely private, just between the two of us. We would have never made such a hateful comment to others or to her directly. (And to be honest, I could have cared less WHAT she was shaped like...)
So, consider the source...
Haha, I like that joke!
I have been insulted on multiple occasions because of my breast size, by both men and women. But none of these people met the American standard for beauty-- if anything, they were quite unattractive...
I'll give you one example: a few years back, I was sitting in a room with a woman that informed me that I wasn't "shaped like a woman". Amusingly enough, she did this in front of a man who had told me in private how attractive he thought I was. I told a close friend of mine about the insult, who replied with astonishment, "Who is she to say anything about another woman's body? She's shaped like a box!"
Now, it's not right to tell another woman she's shaped like a box, either. But this discussion was completely private, just between the two of us. We would have never made such a hateful comment to others or to her directly. (And to be honest, I could have cared less WHAT she was shaped like...)
So, consider the source...
(08-12-2013, 04:58)Tinytots Wrote: When others talk about your small boobs just tell them mine will always be perky, what about yours... I have to find a way to joke about it or I can get deeply depressed. Just keep trying. If you really want it don't give up.
Haha, I like that joke!
