15-12-2013, 04:57
(15-12-2013, 00:05)Outofstyle Wrote: I'm still having troubles keeping a clear mind and focusing on the feeling. My mind always wants to wander or fret over the fact that I haven't had an O yet. By myself they can be really intense but with the guy I'm with I feel like I won't be fast enough, and I have troubles relaxing entirely because I have trust issues(?) and worry about pleasing him... Ughhh... They are getting more intense by myself though I guess that is progress. Relaxing is hard though..... it does help when I just focus on increasing my pleasure rather than on trying to have an orgasm. Any tips anyone?
You don't have to worry much about pleasing him, sexually, with guys, you don't have to be GOOD, you just have to be THERE!
Look up Flower Tucci, she basically gives lessons on how to become a squirter and has set the record for distance; 18 feet. Just go to Bing and look her up. I just watched one of her videos last night, but, didn't think the others in the forum would dig it being posted here. One thing you need to remember is that your G-spot is just inside your vagina an inch or two and at the roof of your vagina. If his plonker doesn't stimulate that, you might not squirt at all. To do it solo with your fingers, put in two curled up and don't so much go in and out as up and down pretty fast. It's going to FEEL like you have to pee, but that's not what it is, so, just let it go. Be prepared to deal with a LARGE wet spot!!