[EllaC]

I'm so confused.

I don't mean to offend anyone or come off wrong, but I'm just confused.
You ladies are married, or with partners (I'm assuming living together)... I don't understand why you wouldn't tell your partners about your NBE? I think it would be near impossible to hide. Like I mean, I have bottles of my herbs everywhere, I massage while watching TV, and my breasts are noticeably getting bigger. Hell he even buys some of my herbs, and ordered my Noogleberry for me.

I'm just wondering what the reasons are that you girls hide it? I understand not noogling around partners (once mine comes, I will be having hour 'me' times), but to keep them completely in the dark?

I couldn't imagine my man not knowing. He's a fantastic source of encouragement and it's great that I have a second set of eyes to document my changes and growth.

So please.. Shed some light. Why don't you tell them?

Hi, no offence taken
In my particular case my husband is very closed minded to anything herbal/natural. He mocks me for taking vitamens and thinks naturopathy/herbalist etc are all just fakes. He's one of those "You do what the doctors tell you because them and only them know best" types of guys.
He's seen my breast enchancement cream and just laughed it off (and yet hes been noticing and paying more attention to my boobs lately).
Sooo for me, its a matter of doing it behind closed doors and am hoping to have significant gains one day soon to be able to say to him "guess how I did this.. herbs"! And even then I could gain 3 cup sizes and he would NEVER believe the herbs had anything to do with it! He would put it down to some biological reason.
So that's why I have to hide it. I will be mocked otherwise.
But more importantly I have a an impressionable young daughter who is already wondering why mummy is paying soo much attention to her boobies lately.
So in summary, I would love to have a supportive husband but sadly that will never happen.