07-01-2014, 21:56
(This post was last modified: 07-01-2014, 21:57 by TibetanPrincess.)
I half way agree. To tell even a long time boyfriend, Hell nooooo...
Now, if I were in a long time marriage, with privacy (kids out of the house), okay, I can see that. But for me, I love love love the idea of SANCTITY in not having him know
Now, if I were in a long time marriage, with privacy (kids out of the house), okay, I can see that. But for me, I love love love the idea of SANCTITY in not having him know

(07-01-2014, 20:08)Jenniferlove Wrote:(07-01-2014, 19:53)caitemh Wrote: I'm so confused.
I don't mean to offend anyone or come off wrong, but I'm just confused.
You ladies are married, or with partners (I'm assuming living together)... I don't understand why you wouldn't tell your partners about your NBE? I think it would be near impossible to hide. Like I mean, I have bottles of my herbs everywhere, I massage while watching TV, and my breasts are noticeably getting bigger. Hell he even buys some of my herbs, and ordered my Noogleberry for me.
I'm just wondering what the reasons are that you girls hide it? I understand not noogling around partners (once mine comes, I will be having hour 'me' times), but to keep them completely in the dark?
I couldn't imagine my man not knowing. He's a fantastic source of encouragement and it's great that I have a second set of eyes to document my changes and growth.
So please.. Shed some light. Why don't you tell them?
You must understand that we are not all like you. Some of us are far more private with things like these and practically consider them taboo. My bf is highly against anything that is not "natural" beauty and I can guarantee would put this in the category of breast implants, even though it obviously isn't. He even thinks braces are cheating!
In the same breath, he, like pretty much everyone in the world is attracted to "natural" beauty. I have always wanted larger breasts and I feel now is the time to do it. As I grow, he grows more interested in them. Win-win situation.