[EllaC]

My husband knows about my doing massage because I do it in front of the tv at night. He does know I listen to hypnosis but I only do that through headphones. He doesn't know I have a noogleberry and I have it hidden in a lingerie bag at the back of my cupboard where he shouldn't find it.

He basically thinks NBE is dangerous and even thought massage would cause cancer until I told him it would help me to identify any lumps quickly (compared to never touching or examining my breasts at all). As for noogleberry, he thought I would hurt myself or it wouldn't work. So I bought it without telling him and use it safely (regular breaks/ padding) when he is out or asleep.

There is no doubt I could hurt myself with NBE by noogling excessively and causing severe bruising or taking a bunch of supplements and causing weird side effects.

I see no harm in pursuing NBE safely and patiently. How is it any different from getting fit or having another hobby, especially if you are not using chemicals or herbs

So it is my thing and I don't involve him, although I wish I could. If the situation was reversed (if he was me and I was him) I would be thrilled that my 'wife' was into this

That's the thing that terrifys me the most and that is cancer and the noogleberry.
That's the one thing that stops me "really" going for it on the noogle
Good on your hubby for caring though, its nice to know he loves you that much that it concerns him