09-01-2014, 22:28
(09-01-2014, 22:20)caitemh Wrote: Thank you ladies for explaining. I guess my situation is different, and I just couldn't comprehend why someone would want to hide. But every one of you have valid and very logical reasons, which are very much your own.
My boyfriend grew up with many beliefs, and for a long period of time he was a "hippy". He believed in the power of positive thought, the power of the mind, and the power of natural remedies for sickness.
He has known for a long time that I was unhappy with my body. I saw a picture of myself from a couple summers ago, and was shocked at how emaciated I looked, and how un-womanly I looked. So I expressed my unhappiness with my body, and he told me he would support me in anything I chose to do.
He helps to pay for my herbs, and he fully paid for my Noogleberry. In his eyes, if it makes me happy, he's happy.
I'm sure he was skeptical at first, but that's gone now that he's physically seeing the results himself.
I massage in front of him, and he always has a full view of my herbs and what I'm taking. I tell him about changes (even if it may bother him XD) throughout my cycle and which herbs effect me how. I dare not Noogle in front of him, but we've agreed that I get my "me" time alone in the bedroom while he plays his games or guitar.
I think, now that there are definite changes and real growth, he's getting excited.
I remember when we first started dating, he'd commented about how he was a little sad that my breasts were smaller naked than with a bra. I explained that a pushup bra was for me, to help me feel good even when I don't have much to feel good about. Last week he told me I am now the size he thought I was when we first got together. So I'm ecstatic :-)
Anyway, happy growing!
Jeepers I wish my man was more open minded to herbs and natural health but sadle no!
I feel the same way. You can make your breasts look fantastic in the right bra but feel like youre letting them/yourself down when you take them off. Ive always said id like my boobs fo be the size they appear to be in a push up bra.
But thats just me.
I must check out your program.