09-03-2010, 23:49
These ladies have gave you some REALLY good and sensible advice and my thoughts echo Cheryl's.
Here is a little about me on telling my mom:
My mom has always been a great mom first and foremost,but she is also the type of mom I and my brothers could go to for ANYTHING.We did not realize that so much when we were younger,but we for sure do now that we are older.Her love is unconditional,and I am so blessed.I hope I am just a 1/4 of the mom she is,and I will be more than happy.
My mom had breast implants-saline-22 or 23 years ago.I can't remember if I was 12,13,or in between,but it was right around that time of my life.
I figured she would say you can only get enlarged breasts through implants,but she did not.She said " I really thought I had tried everything.I thought that surgery was my last resort." She told me she was glad I found a natural approach to it. She was skeptical at first,but she was sold during my last round.
She has gained weight since her surgery,from aging and menopause,therefore she has put on about 2 more cup sizes.She started massaging her breasts for breast health and to get some firmness at the tops and it has worked. She said it was probably good that I took my unintentional break,as it gave my new breast size time to "settle in" (she knows about that-hers took about a year after surgery to "settle in") and that it probably wouldn't cause really bad stretch marks.I had a problem with this during my last growth.
Like Cheryl said-it all depends on your relationship with your mom.You don't have to tell her until you get growth.You don't have to tell her at all.Whatever your gut tells you.
I am not going to tell my mom about all the horror stories about saline implants.I don't want to rain on her parade,AND knowing my mom-she would say "no way those are causing my thyroid problems,fatigue,etc.,etc........they've been in over 20 years."
She would say it's her age and all the hard work she's done,and it may well be.
Cheryl-your mom o.k. with everything now? You can private message me the answer if you don't want to put it on here,or you can tell me to mind my own business.
You are the best judge of your mom.It really is up to you if you tell her or not.NBE is done in stages,not attained overnight like implants are,so you don't have to worry about anyone noticing right away.They just know something is different over time,but they just can't quite put a finger on it.It's up to you if you spill the beans......or not.Good luck to you with your program and best boobie wishes to you!
Here is a little about me on telling my mom:
My mom has always been a great mom first and foremost,but she is also the type of mom I and my brothers could go to for ANYTHING.We did not realize that so much when we were younger,but we for sure do now that we are older.Her love is unconditional,and I am so blessed.I hope I am just a 1/4 of the mom she is,and I will be more than happy.
My mom had breast implants-saline-22 or 23 years ago.I can't remember if I was 12,13,or in between,but it was right around that time of my life.
I figured she would say you can only get enlarged breasts through implants,but she did not.She said " I really thought I had tried everything.I thought that surgery was my last resort." She told me she was glad I found a natural approach to it. She was skeptical at first,but she was sold during my last round.
She has gained weight since her surgery,from aging and menopause,therefore she has put on about 2 more cup sizes.She started massaging her breasts for breast health and to get some firmness at the tops and it has worked. She said it was probably good that I took my unintentional break,as it gave my new breast size time to "settle in" (she knows about that-hers took about a year after surgery to "settle in") and that it probably wouldn't cause really bad stretch marks.I had a problem with this during my last growth.
Like Cheryl said-it all depends on your relationship with your mom.You don't have to tell her until you get growth.You don't have to tell her at all.Whatever your gut tells you.
I am not going to tell my mom about all the horror stories about saline implants.I don't want to rain on her parade,AND knowing my mom-she would say "no way those are causing my thyroid problems,fatigue,etc.,etc........they've been in over 20 years."
She would say it's her age and all the hard work she's done,and it may well be.
Cheryl-your mom o.k. with everything now? You can private message me the answer if you don't want to put it on here,or you can tell me to mind my own business.
You are the best judge of your mom.It really is up to you if you tell her or not.NBE is done in stages,not attained overnight like implants are,so you don't have to worry about anyone noticing right away.They just know something is different over time,but they just can't quite put a finger on it.It's up to you if you spill the beans......or not.Good luck to you with your program and best boobie wishes to you!