[timarie]

Yeah, not gonna tell him. It will be better for him to just think this is a natural growth spurt, which sooner or later I plan on blaming on my metabolism slowing down/me getting older.

Wow, I can't keep secrets like that for long from my very close ones. I just don't see a point in keeping secrets from people who are very close to me, because that is their job to be understanding at least, supportive at best. And I wouldn't want them to keep stuff like that from me. After all, we are all different and no one sees eye-to-eye on everything, so the actual qualifying factor of being a best friend, loved one, or significant other, is to be understanding! Do you think he would never understand and come to appreciate? Oh well, do whatever you feel like you must do! I feel for you girl.