[Missed Miss]

You're right, and I see nothing wrong with it. I just don't want to live in denial, so I give myself a reality check every once in a while. I had extreme breast asymmetry that was really upsetting me. The work I put into fixing it was well worth it... and I think most women in my position would have done the same if they had known the option were available to them. There is no shame in what I did.

That being said, it's not something I would openly share with my family or friends-- but if they asked, I would tell them the truth. A partner is different, on the other hand... so I agree with your sentiments on secrecy and acceptance.


LOL, that does not surprise me!

It'd be more like, "Honey! It's been 10 minutes since your last massage!! Time for another one!!"

Haha, does that include shoulder massages? I wouldn't mind be distracted by such affection!

Absolutely! I can do full body. I've never had a lesson, but, every time I just walk up to someone and give them a shoulder massage, they gasp that it feels SOOO good, but they make me stop almost immediately because they feel it'd make them so relaxed they couldn't function for the rest of the day. It's a CURSE, I tell you!! ;-)

Ooooo I am standing in the que for massage

Take a number and I'll get with you in turn.