11-03-2010, 18:19
(This post was last modified: 12-03-2010, 16:28 by itsjust4fun91.)
I'm almost 8 months into my nbe program and my Libido is fine. That said, a lot of women do experience problems with their libido, In fact I think it is more common than not. One thing I can suggest though is to not give in when you don't feel in the mood. The old saying "Use it or lose it," exist for a reason. Everytime you engage in sex, your body releases certain hormones and gears up to prepare for the next time. The less sex you have the less this happens. It's so easy to say you're not in the mood this day or that and then it stretches into a few days and then more. It's sadly the way most mariages end up by year seven to have dropped so much in the amount of sex they have per week.
So what I'm saying is yes, the nbe will effect your hormones, but instead of giving into it, fight it. Even if you don't feel like doing it, I'd say once you get into it, you'll enjoy it, especially when your body begins releasing all the good hormones that make you enjoy it! I personally will fight tooth and nail before I give into that side effect. It's soooo worth it.
Mel
So what I'm saying is yes, the nbe will effect your hormones, but instead of giving into it, fight it. Even if you don't feel like doing it, I'd say once you get into it, you'll enjoy it, especially when your body begins releasing all the good hormones that make you enjoy it! I personally will fight tooth and nail before I give into that side effect. It's soooo worth it.
Mel