[Bibi]

Okay, I don´t know if this is related to this thread but I´ve found it very useful to read books like "The Rules" or Mimi Tanner´s "Calling Men" (an e-book, I can send it to anyone who is interested) regarding those situations of first dates and when you´re just getting to know a man. They may seem old fashioned at first but they do make a lot of sense, and looking back on my relationships I can now understand why some of them went smoother than others - mostly when I was instinctively behaving as described in those books. I shared them with my girlfriends and they were all "Aaaah... of course... why didn´t I think of that?"

hope that helps for future dates...