[AquaA]

Times like these I really wish this board enforced age restrictions.

I swear I was just thinking the same!!

[Blue Colleen]

Times like these I really wish this board enforced age restrictions.

No really. Think about it. There are some countries, including mine, where breast augnumentation surgery is legal for teens. My mom understands how I'm unhappy about my breasts, and she herself has had silicone implanted. She has even said I could have silicone implanted too if I wanted, when I get older, 16 maybe 17. And if I payed a part of it.

So, if I had never found this forum, I would have to deal with two or three years more of bullying and rejection and self-hatred, only to, after, undergo a risky surgery to get some ugly fake boobs and have to change them every 10 years or so.

Seriously. If we, me and the O.P., just massage and wait and read - and get advice here - we'll probably have the body we want and be confident much before the age you even started worrying about your breasts. We won't "loose our time" noogling or worrying about herbs, we'll have fun instead.

You have to agree, that this makes sense.

[BonitaDDs]

Times like these I really wish this board enforced age restrictions.

No really. Think about it. There are some countries, including mine, where breast augnumentation surgery is legal for teens. My mom understands how I'm unhappy about my breasts, and she herself has had silicone implanted. She has even said I could have silicone implanted too if I wanted, when I get older, 16 maybe 17. And if I payed a part of it.

So, if I had never found this forum, I would have to deal with two or three years more of bullying and rejection and self-hatred, only to, after, undergo a risky surgery to get some ugly fake boobs and have to change them every 10 years or so.

Seriously. If we, me and the O.P., just massage and wait and read - and get advice here - we'll probably have the body we want and be confident much before the age you even started worrying about your breasts. We won't "loose our time" noogling or worrying about herbs, we'll have fun instead.

You have to agree, that this makes sense.

Yes that's an important point thanks colleen!
I think the age restriction is because we have our boobies out but I'd prefer to have seen more natural breast and real women take control of their own bodies instead of only plastic or over edited covers of top shelf magazine and porn because when i was young i thought that must be what boys wanted even more important when we are young and insecure.

[lovedebbii]

Times like these I really wish this board enforced age restrictions.

I swear I was just thinking the same!!

I agree with Bonita about the uncensored breast but I don't think an age restriction is necessary. i think this board gives teens hope that no matter what they end up with by the time puberty is over there is something that can be done about it that isn't invasive surgery. I wish I'd found this board was there was I was a young teen and down about how everyone else had big breasts but me. This forum has a lot of non herbal things that can help with a growing breasts as well.

[PetiteFille]

Times like these I really wish this board enforced age restrictions.

I swear I was just thinking the same!!

I agree with Bonita about the uncensored breast but I don't think an age restriction is necessary. i think this board gives teens hope that no matter what they end up with by the time puberty is over there is something that can be done about it that isn't invasive surgery. I wish I'd found this board was there was I was a young teen and down about how everyone else had big breasts but me. This forum has a lot of non herbal things that can help with a growing breasts as well.

i agree with debii that agrees with bonita that agrees with blue collen

[Missed Miss]

You are 13. You have PLENTY of time to grow breasts. Some girls are late bloomers, you could even end up blossoming when your in your late teens or early 20's.

32A is perfectly normal for your age. This is something you should not be worrying about. All you can do right now is massage them with a good lotion. Anything else would be dangerous for your body as you are to young. You are going through puberty and you would mess up your hormones.

I understand you wanting to look nice in a bikini, but its not healthy to sexualize yourself at such a young age. Trust me, there is way more to life.
Talk to your mom about it. Have her help you find a nice bikini that fits you.

Dont let your friends breast size bother you. You want people to like you for who you are, not the size of your breast.

i'm not trying to sexualize myself. i'm not trying to impress guys, i want this to feel confident about myself. and i just don't understand how i can have started my period, have hair, and not have any sort of chest.

Darlin', it's called, NATURE. If EVERYBODY sprouted the twins at the exact same age and grew to the exact same size, there'd be no point in doing it at all! EVERYBODY goes through different phases of puberty at a different time!! It's just that in a lot of cases it LOOKS like most of us are doing it at the exact same time!! Back in the `50's, girl didn't start growing tits until they were 13, or so, and didn't start getting their periods until they were almost 16! If your girlfriends are putting you down for having fried eggs at 13 instead of the B or C cups they supposedly all APPEAR to have (I'll bet a number of them stuff!!), tell them about my friend, Gen, who was a D cup by the time she was 13!! Or my friend, Liz, who was a DD by the time she was 12!!!! See how insignificant that makes THEM feel!!!! I've also heard of girls needing bras by the time they were 7!!!!
Right now, you, AND your friends, are KIDS!!!! ENJOY IT WHILE YOU CAN!!!! WHAT'S the big rush in growing up? And, to this day, I STILL can't see the correlation between confidence and have big tits!! You CREATE your confidence!!!! You don't rely on various assets of your physiognomy give it TO you!! What you NEED to do is just live your life, chill cool, be YOURSELF, NOT your other girlfriends!! And just let nature take its course! Chances are EXTREMELY good that by the time you get out of high school, you'll have nice hefty rack to sport around in, and, if you don't, it REALLY doesn't matter!! They're just TITS!! Tits don't make you more or less of a woman; YOU do!! Trust me, there's LOTS of guys out there that PREFER girls with a bit less in their bra!! Some guys don't even CARE what size the twins are!! They're only interested in YOU!! And, THAT'S the kind of guy you should be going after, anyway!!!! They love YOU, NOT the kind of car you drive, the kind of clothes you wear, the way you wear make-up or do your hair, the kind of house you live in, how much money you have or how big your tits are, they care about YOU!!!! :-) I'm tellin' ya RIGHT NOW, hun, THAT is worth MORE than ALL the gold (or tits) in the world!!!!!!
Come back in 10 years if they haven't ballooned up the way you think they should've. THEN we can help ya!!
Take care, hun!! And JUST be YOU and have FUN being a kid!! :-)

[Larkspur]

MissMorgan, a well-fitting bra would be my best advice--find one you feel confident in and that makes you hold a good posture (important!). Oh, how could I forget, eat healthily including lots of fruits and veggies and healthy FATS and protein as well.
I don't think you should have to worry about breast size at your age, but just because people tell you that, doesn't mean you wont. Societal pressures are also very difficult to combat, no matter what age. I'm in no way a medical expert, but it seems that implants, herbs, and even pumping would greatly interfere with the developmental process.

[uhuccup]

You must be kidding.
I mean I was like you were when I was 14 ("I want breasts now") and I did try some things (hypnosis etc), but nothing worked... But I wasn't even a 32AAAAA! I only had nipples...
32 A is a good size for a 13 year old girl. Be confident about it. Sure you will grow more - your puberty just started... Don't mess around with, otherwise it could be that you never really develop (just like me, if only grown from NBE, but I was 18 at the beginning.)!
You can wear push ups and push up bikinis.

Don't try to impress the boys,girl.You are only 13! Your boobs will develop. Maybe with 14 you'll look at this thread again and see that you have developed. ;-)

[lau]

omg I got my period when i was almost 17 and only got nipples till I was 19 !!!! Of course during that time there where some moments that I hated my boobs, I didn't even had to wear a bra, I seriously had nothing!!! But for me not having boobs at that time made me focus on other stuff like my hair. I took really good care of my curls and managed to grow it till it hit my waist. almost everywhere I went I got compliments etc. and let me tell you I still had more then enough boys that where interesting in me lol !

[Dynseli]

she can be here. just the conversations have to be appropriate. of course she shouldn't post pics. the rest though, being here isn't worse than reproductive education in elementary school, middle school, or an adult teacher talk in high school? I kind of think pm, pic posting, or email could be restricted. I don't think someone should be made to feel bad for being here.

As for cosmetic surgery, I think its disgusting, and its not an answer. I agree with some above comments about it.

Just take it easy, people will like you for you. Don't stress about it.