Dear Jennifer,
There is time and place for every action. Proper attire at the right place and time is the solution to your situation. Be grateful for your new boobies.
(05-12-2013, 18:24)pom19 Wrote: Dear Jennifer,
There is time and place for every action. Proper attire at the right place and time is the solution to your situation. Be grateful for your new boobies.
Thank you Pom. I understand that. I'm saying merely having mounds now worries me about offending some. I know I'm being silly, women have boobs. I'm just so used to not having them that I'm afraid if I look too busty (even in a sweater) that it may offend some.
(05-12-2013, 07:24)Jenniferlove Wrote: It's really weird becoming "busty". I had become so accustomed to being virtually flat that I was just used to wearing over-sized clothing or padded bras. I would wear many layers and have fun with it. Deep down I was always upset about being flat though and somewhat resentful of all the lucky girls around me. It seemed like everyone had a larger chest than me! It just didn't seem fair. I would detract from what wasn't there with beautiful fashion choices, yet deep down wished I could impress with great cleavage.
Now I have that brand new accessory and it really evokes many different feelings! I feel ecstatic, womanly, sexy, GREAT on one hand, but the other side of me wonders if I'm over-doing it? I'm not wanting to offend anyone nor wanting too much attention, etc. I mean, even a tight sweater makes me wonder if they're offensive because they truly look SO big. I really just want to look sexy for me and my boyfriend. I don't want others staring at my boobs. I can look ridiculously chesty now with the right bra and outfit. It's exhilarating! I always am into classy outfits, so I hope the cleavage is a nice balance instead of too much. Like old glamour.
If things keep going the way they are *fingers crossed* eventually I'm going to start being described as having big boobs. Will people wonder where they came from or will they just assume I always had them but kept them covered up? That will be my excuse for sure! I'm still waiting for my boyfriend to question their size. He plays with them and comments on them all the time but not once has he said they're getting really big or outwardly questioned it in any way. I guess because he sees me all the time? Silly boy.
I was going to ask. going from way back when till now theres a huge difference! what have your friends said??? and how did you reply! ps men CAN be unobservant believe me ha ha. I guess if I were you I was able to hide it in the fact that before you may have worn push up bras but now you don't have too?
I'm not doing any cleavage in front of my friends so nobody has said anything yet. And it's winter here so I've been covered up! I will just shrug and say maybe my metabolism is slowing down finally and I'm gaining in the right places.
Do your parents live nearby? I will do it there sometimes. They have a guest room and will just leave me alone, thinking I'm on the computer (which, technically I am). Or when he's not home. I noogle off and on probably 2 hours total a day, 5 days a week. Again, this is a rough average. It really varies each week. While noogling, I take many breaks to let the boobs breathe. I will noogle 5-10 minutes just holding the suction, then release and massage for around 5 minutes. Then do it again.
(07-12-2013, 23:42)peggy Wrote: Thanks for your reply Jennifer. No, my parents live approx. 7500 km from my home, so that is no option unfortunately.
Do you think to noogle twice a week would be effective?
Well, I certainly think it's better than nothing! Maybe encourage him to get a new hobby? If he mentions wanting to do something without you don't make a fuss. You will begin really enjoying your new free-time, trust me!
(This post was last modified: 11-12-2013, 21:53 by Jenniferlove.)
Ok so I purchased the strangest bra off ebay. It was really cheap and seemed pretty in the photos. I don't dislike it, it's just......weird. My main reason for buying it was because I wanted to test out a 32d. This seems to be too small as well, just like the 34C bra I bought. Could it just be the bras or am I truly ready for an upgrade? This is a deep plunge bra so you can wear low-cut tops without the bra showing. I haven't worn it out yet, I just wanted to show the photos. I still feel too weird to buy a 34d bra. How could I just jump from 34b to 34d? Was I really supposed to be in a C awhile ago? Who knows! It's exciting to think I could really, truly be a D cup. If so, D is not nearly as big as I thought, which is why my new goal is DD.
P.S. I have added Vitex back into my routine. This is the first hormonal herb added back. So far, so good. No acne yet. I'm hoping it was the Black Cohosh and that I can continue Vitex and PM without any problems. After that horrid period I just had, I do want to bring a few herbs back in, if not merely for a graceful period!
(This post was last modified: 11-12-2013, 22:11 by Jenniferlove.)
Haha, looking at that photo this is the most awkward bra I've ever owned! I need to buy another 32D bra but a NORMAL bra. I really am spilling out of it though. This is a very small bra on me.
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