(04-02-2014, 22:59)Missed Miss Wrote: If money's no issue, have her buy (or YOU buy her) a set of silicone inserts and let her tool around with them for a while and see if it don't hurt or become a problem
That's a good idea. Thanks for being the only one to constructively engage me.
Quote:Lol! Okay, so, it's okay for HER to go through growing them AND getting them reduced. If you both switched places, would YOU be okay with that deal? She has to GROW them, and THEN pay tons of money to go under the knife to get them reduced to what she has now, even though SHE'S perfectly happy with what she already has now.
Well, I wouldn't do this if I thought the reduction risk was high. If her boobs get too big for her I think she'll get used to it. And if there are NBE methods to grow breasts there must be some to shrink them if necessary. I'd do that first. I also forgot to mention that her boobs were bigger and firmer before she had kids. I'd be 95% satisfied if we just got her back to that. She never complained back then.
Quote: So, making her grow bigger tits is payback!
I see how it sounded that way but that's not what I meant. Both sides make sacrifices in a good marriage to make the other partner happier. It should be fair.
Quote:Let's say you make her tits grow to proportions she doesn't want and she discovers that you made that happen, then SHE pays YOU back by spiking YOUR food with something to shrink your dick, make you sterile and grow big tits, too. Would that be okay with you?
This possibility of either one of those things happening is so remote that it's not even worth speculating. If I'm not turned on enough by her sexually, what good is having a big or small penis anyway?
Quote:How about this for pain: other men staring at her newly enlarged tits, making crude comments about them and even grabbing them (some men do that!!). Maybe having bigger tits will attract some really sexy guy that she finds more attractive than you and she runs off with him. After all, you're overweight and unattractive to her, now. You AND the kids lose out
That happens even now with her 38DDs and its a turn-on for me. I've tried to get her into swinging but she's a one man woman, completely devoted to me, despite my beer gut and baldness. She's also extremely Catholic and buys into all that religious crap. I don't give the risk of her cheating or leaving me a second thought.
Quote: (04-02-2014, 21:02)Edtar Wrote: BTW, is your avatar pic really you - because it's hot!
No, that's not really me in the avatar. I guess I'm like your wife, I wouldn't like having tits that big, either. DD's would be MY limit, too.
Oh, OK. That's quite a disappointment. The world needs bigger boobs. But don't worry, I won't slip you any mickies. LOL
Quote:So, as long as YOU'RE happy, that's all that matters.
No, you're putting words in my mouth. I saw a Dr. Phil once where the couple disagreed on stuff like this. Dr. Phil said it should be treated as a weighted priority. if something is #1 concern for me and a #5 for you, then I should win out if things balance out where other things that are, for example a #2 for you beat out a #6 for me, etc. I'm sure that my wanting my wife to have bigger boobs is more important to me, by far, than how much she doesn't want bigger boobs. She has pretty much said so herself.
Quote:I wonder how THAT girl would feel if she found out you only want her for her tits? I wonder how devastated your kids would be once they found out you left mommy AND them for some other girl JUST because she had bigger tits? How would it make YOU feel if you found out your future son-in-law felt that way about your daughter? He comes to ask you for her hand in marriage, you say, "Do you love her with all your heart and soul?" He says, "No, but I REALLY dig those huge jugs of hers!!" You ask, "Would you drop her like a hot brick if you met someone else with bigger tits than hers?" He says, "In a HEARTBEAT!!" What do you say to him at that point. "Get the fuck out of here and never come back!!" Or, "Hot damn!! You're MY kinda guy!! SURE you can marry her!! I'll even pay for the honeymoon!! Take as LONG as you like!!
The heart wants what it wants. Truth is, I never would have married my wife if it had not been for her tits. I was young and very immature (we married at 19). She knows this. In fact, our private joke has been, for many years, that I married her for her tits and got her personality as a bonus. Most marriages fail for lots of reasons. I'll admit, I just got lucky. And I'll also admit that I am being selfish about this. But sometimes you need to put yourself first.