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Hello ladies,
First I should confirm that I am male and intend to stay that way.
I am also an administrator on a penis enhancement site. A female member on my site compared male penis body image issues to female breast body image issues, and that comparison intrigued me. I began doing some research on the Internet read some interesting articles, and ended up on the site.
I work with a lot of guys who seem to have their entire self-esteem wrapped up in the size and shape of their penis.
I'm hoping to gain some wisdom and insight from your experiences.
I hope that my being here does not offend anyone.
Thank you,
Russ
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It's kinda hard to say. Most women say size doesn't matter, but girth does, however, a friend of mine just told me of a friend of hers who said she was going with some guy that kept telling her all these wild sexual things he was going to do with her. When the time came for him to unveil his tool, it was a small one, and she started laughing and said, "You're going to do all that to me with THAT???"
I think it's all pretty much objective. You go after what you like and what makes you feel good, so, having a huge plonker CAN be a BIG turn-off for a lot of women! It just depends on the couple in question. What works great for one might not be so great for another. Women usually only have a 4" deep vagina, so, why try to make it a lot longer when the excess might never get used? I'd think the only reason to have a very long one is for oral self-gratification!
Now, someone else might come along here and say, "I like `em at LEAST 18" long!" So, like I said, it's completely objective!
Personally, I can't see how having bigger body parts can give anyone more confidents! Ya just go with what you got! I've know women that were practically flat and were OVER-FLOWING with confidence!! Look at Mrs. Emma Peel (Diana Rigg) THAT'S ONE CONFIDENT WOMAN, and she's just barely a B cup!! It's what YOU want to make of yourself, NOT how big your bits are!!
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I totally agree with everything Missed Miss said. I used to be a B cup but i was always extremely confident. I know Im beautiful with an amazing body, very smart and educated. Never even paid attention to my breast size. The reason i became interested with growing them is because the guy im in love with likes busty woman. He's very attracted to me but why not get sexier? I started researching it and discussing the whole thing with my male friends, they all told me that how much they love large breasts. The thing is you constantly have to improve, be it physically, mentally or emotionally. You work out, stay in shape, eat properly because you want to be healthy and decrease the risk of getting ill, etc...
You take care of how you look because it makes you feel good. You educate yourself and constantly learn new things, get exposed to new things, to constantly grow and mature. So wanting anything to grow larger or smaller, should come down to you wanting to develop and be the best image of yourself, FOR YOU. People that do things for others never get the right gratification from it. If you constantly want to please people tha[/align]n you will waste your life pleasing others, not developing nor be content. And at the end of the day, you have to be grateful for what you have and love yourself.
This is the way i see things and my NBE journey.
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Ladies, thank you for your responses and your thoughts.
Please share more!
Penises: I never worried about the size or shape of my penis. I just assumed they were all pretty much alike and I never received any complaints so it never occurred to me to worry about it.
But today is a different time and people, male and female, are exposed to porn at a very early age. We get a lot of people joining our male enhancement site who have seen porn long before experiencing sex. In other words, their first impressions of sex come from porn rather than personal experience with the result that they have entirely unrealistic expectations of themselves and their partners.
Not good.
Breasts: Like most guys, I have spent a long of time thinking about breasts and, in all seriousness, I want to make one thing very clear: From AA cup to DD+, I have never met a breast that I did not admire and enjoy. I recognize that there are very practical reasons for a woman to prefer one size or another, but don't change a thing on our
(men's) account.
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Being male also I wouldn't mind if my penis fell off! lol.... and my breasts growth exploded.... probably wouldn't make my wife happy.... ooh well... welcome to the forum!
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Hello Karren,
Thanks for the welcome!
It is nice to meet you.
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I HAVE recently seen a porno online where the guy had a slightly longer plonker, between 9" and 12" long, and the girl that was screwing him actually got VERY frustrated and even started crying over not being able to take the whole thing!! She wanted SOOOO badly to take it all and was DEAD SET on getting it!! I don't think she ever did, though.
Another I saw a few decades ago in the video tape "Freaks Of Nature Vol. 2", had a guy with an 18" dong and a girl came along and slowly got the whole thing inside of her!! How she did it, I don't know!! I HAVE heard of some women who have their cervix dilated so they can actually take it in the uterus, thereby taking even more of a guys schlong in her, but even that won't allow her to take 18"!!
But, for the most part, as the G-spot is only about 3" in, having a longer dick is pretty much a waste.
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Penis size, like breast size, is usually more about visual impact than about functionality. That being said, women, I am told, can be quite sensitive to even quite modest changes in penis girth, reporting a greater feeling of fullness and, sometimes, more clitoral stimulation with a girthier partner. Changes in length is a different matter: a little deeper penetration is not noticed until the thrusting starts bumping up against the cervix, which most women find uncomfortable. With practice, and patience, some couples can learn to ease the glans of his penis past her cervix and enjoy full penetration, but that is more a matter of avoiding discomfort from a long penis than achieving more pleasure. One thing that a longer penis does offer is a great number of positions. Some positions are prone to the penis slipping out (standing positions or spooning for example) and a longer penis can give a couple more operational flexibility.
Of course, having too long, or too girthy, of a penis can also eliminate options as well if the penis in question is big enough to cause discomfort. This can be particularly true of oral or anal sex.
But the reason why most guys seem to want a big penis is so that other people will look at it and say "Wow, you have a really big penis!"
By the way, I love Diana Rigg (Emma Peel and Mrs. James Bond!)
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(16-04-2014, 04:31)Pirate Wrote: Penis size, like breast size, is usually more about visual impact than about functionality. That being said, women, I am told, can be quite sensitive to even quite modest changes in penis girth, reporting a greater feeling of fullness and, sometimes, more clitoral stimulation with a girthier partner. Changes in length is a different matter: a little deeper penetration is not noticed until the thrusting starts bumping up against the cervix, which most women find uncomfortable. With practice, and patience, some couples can learn to ease the glans of his penis past her cervix and enjoy full penetration, but that is more a matter of avoiding discomfort from a long penis than achieving more pleasure. One thing that a longer penis does offer is a great number of positions. Some positions are prone to the penis slipping out (standing positions or spooning for example) and a longer penis can give a couple more operational flexibility.
Of course, having too long, or too girthy, of a penis can also eliminate options as well if the penis in question is big enough to cause discomfort. This can be particularly true of oral or anal sex.
But the reason why most guys seem to want a big penis is so that other people will look at it and say "Wow, you have a really big penis!"
By the way, I love Diana Rigg (Emma Peel and Mrs. James Bond!)
Me, too!! She's GOREGEOUS!!
In the TS world, once they get the bottom half done, they use a series of plastic dildos which are called dilators. They use these to deepen their vagina and make sure that it doesn't close up on them. Seems to me (but maybe I'm wrong!), a GG can stretch herself out over time by having sex with a guy with a big one, or even just use a large dildo on herself they way TS's use the dilators. I've seen guys that have their urethra stretched WAY open over time, I even saw a guy put a real tampon in his!! So, if a guy can do this, what couldn't a woman with her vagina? It's just skin.
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Well, that all makes perfect sense to me. In fact, that is pretty much what Penis Enhancement exercises do: stretch, exercise, heal, repeat. But all of that takes time and dedication so she would need to be motivated.
What does "GG" stand for?
