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Not to be rude to you, but yes women go through alot and males never appreciate it. I believe and it's actually been proven that females are smarter generally than males, this is because of the multitasking mind we have, we do better in school statistically. We concentrate on our studies more than most of the male population (notice I'm saying most here people, it doesn't mean all) yet we are treated like we are the "weaker" sex, that we are less intelligent, that we are less capable. I believe women could make better leaders, just how I feel. And what's funny is, we put up with so much and never complain, males barely have to deal with anything, we bare the children, have them and go through hell doing it, take care of the children and everything else, yet we are less intelligent? And less strong? I'd love to see a single male bare children and give birth VAGINALLY not the easy c-section way and then take care of them properly. I have met single fathers, but they struggle, where as single moms normally, not always, have their shit together. Single fathers typically move on and find a new mother for the children, so she can take care of them faster than single mothers do, again this is the norm, not all. I'm not scared I will say what I've done, and I've been with about 8 males willingly, including my hubby, but I've had an ex ask me the exact number of "dicks" that have penetrated me as he so bluntly put it, I was raped by 2 to 3 guys, so it would be 10 or 11, I'm not sure if it was 2 or 3 cause one time it was a date rape with a drug slipped in my drink, he had a friend with him, so I'm not sure if the friend was just the look out or joined in. Only thing I know is I woke up bleeding and had bruises all over me, scratches, etc. they beat me while doing it, why I have no clue, I was drugged so of course I don't believe I was fighting. Well I have told some truthfully how many I've been with and I was called a slut, and 80% of them used me as well. They convinced me they were sincere, wanted a lasting relationship, then once they got what they wanted left. I can respect someone who tries to be in long relationships but has been in a bunch of bad ones and been with alot of people that way, that's not their fault, that's life. But guys who have one night stands, use women just to put more notches on their belt, I find that disgusting. Sure there are women that do it to, but not near as many as guys that do it. I was lucky with my husband, he was the ONLY guy I willingly slept with on the first night, it just, happened. And I thought for sure he was going to leave the next day and never call me again. But nope, he said he fell for me way before we even had sex. So there are good ones out there, they are just few and far in between.
But yea back on the subject matter, males never appreciate what we do, it's alot and they never realize it. That's why I wish every male on this planet could live as a female, just for one day to see what it's like, let all the females trade bodies with the males for a day. And then we treat them the way they treat us. I think it would open their eyes. My hubby said he would be masturbating in the mirror all day if we traded bodies lol. I said good, I'll be playing videogames like you normally do lol. But all kidding aside, he's one of the few guys that understand what women deal with and would never treat me bad.
And on my point about females statistically being smarter intelligence wise, we just are never given the chances than males are. We get treated like we are children most the time by bosses. I typically, when I have a male boss, just play along with it, that's what most women do. But I do prefer a female boss. Male ones sometimes think they have this power over you that they can get whatever they want from you, a few have learned the hard way I don't put up with that BS. I just hope your boss doesn't start treating you like that, it's horrible.