[bmthx]

I am going for a consultation for vaginaplasty this week because I desperately don't like the appearance of this part of me its also only connected to very bad memories and experiences I feel a lot of shame here for me I think that that is also towards the reason I want to have a new start before I feel ready to date and marry.
I have long uncomfortable labias and that is very irritating to me to wear jeans or anything tight I dont feel comfortable naked either.
I watch ed a TV show about perfect vagina but no one really answers the question I would love to have a pretty one mine looks so alien and ugly.
What do you think is a perfect or pretty vagina?
I can't even find one as ugly as mine in Google
This is close but mine are twisted and uneven.
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Is this good? its my dream one

[echapman]

A perfect vagina is one that can comfortably have sex, birth babies if you want, and let's you go potty when you need to.

If your vagina is causing you that much distress and discomfort then by all means fix it. It would be very hypocritical of me to tell you to love that part of you when we are all here to grow breasts. There is no perfect vagina and they all come in different shapes and sizes! I couldn't stand mine for a long time because I thought it was fat... seriously. Fat vagina? That's ridiculous.

[yellow_]

IMO, there is no perfect vagina. A pretty vagina maybe and those are the ones that are usually portrayed in porn.

I don't know how this would help but I stumbled across a website about vaginas and how each woman has different vagina. An artist went to do hundreds mould of vagina and each of them is different.

[bmthx]

Thanks I am sure I want to change it I wish there was a more natural and less expensive way I remember nearly trying to cut it with a razor when I was younger.
Do you think there are any lotion or way to shrink them?
Do you think there is a reason for mine so ugly like my small breast are mostly puffy nipple maybe is it a hormonal condition cause this.
Yes I wish it pretty is my goal a pretty one?
Has anyone else had this problem?
I have never had a child or even dated so I should be a virgen not have this used looking thing.

[echapman]

Contrary to popular belief the amount of sex you have doesn't change your vagina... that's just a myth that boys perpetuate because their only ideas about sex come from porn. It's also used as a device to slut-shame women. MEN aren't that stupid. I have had several sexual partners and I am sure the amount of sex I have had is close to the thousands by now (although my amount of partners isn't lol) and my vagina looks exactly the same as it did when I was a virgin.

There are no creams to shrink it. Do not put anything down there with these claims because the only thing that can change you is surgery. I don't really condone surgery, but since it is causing you actual discomfort you might want to consider it.

[Jenniferlove]

Do what makes you happy. If you want it that bad, then do it. These types of things without a doubt can positively improve your life and put your insecurities behind you.

[AquaA]

Okay this is awkward but I don't even know how my vagina looks like nor other women for that matter. I've seen cadavers but I didn't get to check their vagina lol and in my medical textbooks they all look the same no? I just never paid attention to it. Oh dear god, is there something as a pretty vagina? I don't need more insecurities!
I've never watched porn, never really interested me the idea of watching other people have sex.

[BonitaDDs]

I know mines not perfect I have a scar where I tore a piercing there
I had this piercing
http://wiki.bme.com/images/2/2d/Nefertit...cing-3.jpg the scar is where the top pulled down as I caught it it was a little painful its getting better with vitamin e lemon juice and msm but at first was deep like a belly button, but men have normally scarred penis from circumcision so I don't feel insecure is hardly noticeable now.
Yes all vaginas are different I think pretty vagina would be plump outer lips and short pink inner labias of course hairless and tight like your 'goal vagina' but the first isn't ugly just different some men will probably prefer like that.
But do men really mind probably not as long as it feels good, if your vaginas a problem to anyone else they don't deserve to see it.

[AquaA]

I know mines not perfect I have a scar where I tore a piercing there
I had this piercing
http://wiki.bme.com/images/2/2d/Nefertit...cing-3.jpg the scar is where the top pulled down as I caught it it was a little painful its getting better with vitamin e lemon juice and msm but at first was deep like a belly button, but men have normally scarred penis from circumcision so I don't feel insecure is hardly noticeable now.
Yes all vaginas are different I think pretty vagina would be plump outer lips and short pink inner labias of course hairless and tight like your 'goal vagina' but the first isn't ugly just different some men will probably prefer like that.
But do men really mind probably not as long as it feels good, if your vaginas a problem to anyone else they don't deserve to see it.

Haha Bonitta you just made me look down there... According to your description and a little google search, I think I've got one of the pretty ones. The lips aren't pink though but quite red. Unfortunately, I'm hairy everywhere so it's not different there. I'm planning on laser removing all soon anyway. Well have to wait till I'm sexually active and see if they comment about it or not.

I definitely learned something new today haha

[isobasic]

I find the second one a little creepy...you can tell it's not natural. Does she even have a bumhole? :L But then I'm not a fan of the hairless look in general tbh.
Like the others, I can't tell you what to do - and if surgery really is the only thing that will make you feel better about the past, then it's your body and if it does make you feel better, it's nobody's business. I think it'd be better and less risky to just wait it out and learn to love how you are though. You're not your past, and your body isn't wrong because of what has happened to it. Maybe you'll find the right partner that you trust enough to let help you learn to enjoy the way you are, and you'll be glad you never let the past own you. What if you get surgery and you still don't like what you see, or you lose sensation? i'd say what it feels like to you is much more important than how it looks!