[boats.and.birds]

Hi! I am new here and have just posted my program on the personal programs page. i would appreciate any advice/encouragement. i'm a 34B and would be happy with even just gaining one cup size, i would feel so much better about myself if i were a C cup i have always felt insecure about my small breasts. i am a dancer at a gentlemen's club which has made it even worse i've always felt so jealous seeing guys i like go after girls with huge boobs, and at work i am surrounded by girls with huge fake boobs getting all the attention from the guys, it makes me feel so insecure about my body. i like the shape of my breasts though and they are very firm, so i do not want to get implants and risk ruining them. i am hopeful that this program is going to work!!

[cleo]

Hi and welcome. Just saw your pics and I think you have lovely shaped breasts and they are definitely not small!! I'm a 34B also and you look way bigger than me. I'd have said you were a C cup already but I know pics can sometimes be deceiving. Anyway, best of luck with your programme!

[boats.and.birds]

aw thank you so much for the compliment cleo

[Anastasia916]

I agree with cleo, there is no need to be insecure, you have a very lovely shape, they look just fine. And trust me, more males prefer natural breasts like yours over the big balloon looking fake breasts, well males that are worth your time anyway. Unfortunately males that go to gentlemen's clubs are not there to look for natural, they are there to look for whatever is going to make their "mini me" the happiest. Sad but true. So I wouldn't go by what those type of males think. I'm not talking down on you at all, just don't let those males get to you, think of it only as your job and nothing more. Remember than confidence is always key. I've known strippers, webcam girls, etc. etc. and confidence is EVERYTHING. It wouldn't matter how fake you are, how big or how small you are, the glow and essence that a woman with complete confidence gives off is everything! I use to know a stripper who was a natural 32C, same size as me now after NBE lol, and that is basically the same size as a 34B, and really your breasts look the same shape and size as hers did. But she was sooo confident and basically when you were around her she stole every males eye in the room, and she wasn't big chested! She seen dancing as a job and nothing more, she would strip in a high class club in Atlanta, GA, only on Fridays and Saturdays twice a month, and she made about $10,000 to $15,000 a month from that alone. Now how I knew her is I'm in sales and marketing, I was doing sales at a furniture store and she was also doing sales there, we started hanging out and that's when she told me about her second job. She invited me to come one weekend, I am not brave enough to do it myself, I just can't. But I stayed to just hang out, and it was crazy there were ladies with DD's everywhere or bigger! And she got more tips and clients than any of them! Why? Because of her confidence! You need to look at yourself in the mirror and stop picking yourself apart for what you don't like about yourself and start pointing out what you do like. For me that's my ass, legs, hips, petite frame, eyes, etc. etc. Just go on and on to yourself about your good features and you will forget what you are insecure about. Tell yourself before you go to work, you are a badass bitch, you are a Goddess, any male that has the privileged of seeing you will just go googoo gaagaa. They should only pay you in high amounts to see such beauty. This might sound silly to you, but once you start believing what I'm saying and start giving off that confidence, you will see a VAST improvement.

Heck with me, I give off confidence now without realizing. And my hubby a few weeks ago was telling me that all the guys at work were talking about the hottest wives lol and I was on the top of the list. The other "hot wives" of the other husbands here, they have bigger boobs, longer hair, etc. etc. but yet I was put at the top of the list with them, it's all about confidence.

I hope this helps and hope it works out for you. But don't listen to some scumbags in a club (sorry that's what I feel they are, just look at them as money only, more than likely they are married and not happy with their wives after having THEIR children, so they go to clubs to get off to younger women) get you down. Just listen to yourself and your boyfriend (well if he really loves you and is good to you).

[em2727]

you look great! And just remember not all guys want a girl with huge boobs! Me and hubby were looking at a website with real breasts and we both agree that B-C range looks the best on most frames, so everyone has different tastes! Good luck on your booby quest!

[boats.and.birds]

Thank you sooo much Anastasia, your advice helped me a lot at work during the past weekend It's so hard to stay confident sometimes. Guys at my work and even my guy friends all seem to be so turned on my huge boobs and it makes me feel so inferior but this weekend I tried to keep your advice in mind at work and did much better. I looked at your pictures and your breasts look beautiful too!

I'm still hoping to be able to at least fill out a C cup when I'm done with nbe! But thank you so much for helping me feel more comfortable with how my body looks now too