[blessedbreasts]

I was in one of the best moods ever today! I even woke up feeling good. I prayed a really great prayer when I woke up and the rest of the day just felt fantastic. So nice to feel happy. I almost don't know what to do with myself.

I've been eating like this lately:

Breakfast - Piece of fruit and loaded oatmeal on weekdays; piece of fruit and eggs with veggies on the weekend

Lunch - Green smoothie with soup or a vegetarian taco bowl

Dinner - Chicken and veggie stir fry, or salmon with roasted veggies and a salad on weekdays; some homemade veggie pizza with a cauliflower crust on the weekends

Snack - Dates and nuts

Really tempted to measure my breasts. I keep massaging them twice a day faithfully. I also use my bust roller in the shower or bath. Makes them all flushed.

I, er... I need some romantic advice, and I don't have anyone to ask in real life. But I'm almost too embarrassed to ask here. I don't even know how to ask what I need help with, to be honest.

[James98]

I, er... I need some romantic advice, and I don't have anyone to ask in real life. But I'm almost too embarrassed to ask here. I don't even know how to ask what I need help with, to be honest.

The best thing about this community is its anonymity. We only know each other through this forum and if we met on the street we would walk by each other without any recognition. So I got to ask, have you met up with this boy you like recently?

[EllaC]

Yay for feeling good today :

I keep forgetting to massage or feel grumpy and pretty much ignore my bosom now.

What's the advice you need!

[blessedbreasts]

But you've had a bit of progress recently it seems, Ella. I think since last year, despite the gut issues and weight loss, your breasts have shaped up and grown some. I'd love to ignore my breasts! But I can't help but notice them. My latest critique is that I'm not filling out my bras because I don't have enough tissue in the tops of them. It all goes to the bottoms.

Okay, so yes, I've seen the boy recently more than once. It's frustrating because we don't really run in the same circles, so we don't encounter each other naturally. I can't bear to look him in the eye for long because he's so handsome, so I haven't worked up the nerve to smile at him. I've tried to brainstorm some ideas and haven't really come up with anything that will break down the barrier of us not being in the same circles. I can't figure out how to move into his "world," if that makes sense.

I guess the question is how do I bridge that gap? I can't think of any clever way to do it. And please don't tell me to just go up to him and talk to him. I'm way too shy.

[James98]

Do you know his phone number? Can you text him?

[blessedbreasts]

Do you know his phone number? Can you text him?

No. We honestly don't really know each other. All of our interactions have lasted maybe two minutes at the most. Our relationship consists basically of me catching him looking at me.

I'm really sick of this... this is honestly how it always goes for me when a guy seems to be interested in me. Nothing comes of it and I really don't want another anticlimactic ending. I know I'm doing something wrong. But nothing romantic comes naturally to me, so I can't figure it out.

[EllaC]

Do you know his phone number? Can you text him?

No. We honestly don't really know each other. All of our interactions have lasted maybe two minutes at the most. Our relationship consists basically of me catching him looking at me.

I'm really sick of this... this is honestly how it always goes for me when a guy seems to be interested in me. Nothing comes of it and I really don't want another anticlimactic ending. I know I'm doing something wrong. But nothing romantic comes naturally to me, so I can't figure it out.

Unless you find out what he does and join in too, ie if its a group AND OR you find out when hes going to be at a certain place if you know where he lives and "bump into" him one day, you need to meet out of the social setting cause social settings thers always other people around distracting and diverting attention. MY ONLY ADVICE and i think if this doesnt work well hes to shy as well then! Is next time you CATCH HIM LOOKING AT YOU you need to do a "shy smile and blush and immediately look down " as if your embarrased!!! Do it in an obvious way because if he likes you hes going to tell by that "hey this girl is really shy but SHE LIKES ME from the shy smile and blush" and then he will know he has to make the first move...

Well re my gut the fact ive put on 2kgs is really good! bugger my figure, thats a good sign, loosing weight then id have problems!
Plus i had  really expsensive DNA test done which will tell me what im predisposed to! thats amazing cause if im predisposed to not drinking coffee, or eating gluten or my detox pathways due to a certain gene then i have something to work with! I just have to wait 2 weeks to get an appointment with my practioner!!!!!! In the meantime im eating gluten and i could very well be celiac right now and thats not good so the sooner i get the results the sooner i can get to work to knock this out once and for all! : Im smack bang in the middle of my cycle so boobs shrunk significantly, ie a cup size but its not a big deal.

[blessedbreasts]

Ella, I had a feeling your gut was healing! I'm so excited for you! Remember how hopeless you were feeling about it all at one point? Now it looks like things are going to work themselves out!

And thanks for the advice.

[EllaC]

Ella, I had a feeling your gut was healing! I'm so excited for you! Remember how hopeless you were feeling about it all at one point? Now it looks like things are going to work themselves out!

And thanks for the advice.

Yes NEED to quit coffee too now aghhh - but found out in contains mold and causes leaky gut!!! Plus il quit milk if i dont have coffee anymore.

Hope you make headway with the boy too : Life is precious and short, i hope you connect with him soon

[hannah]

Do you know his phone number? Can you text him?

No. We honestly don't really know each other. All of our interactions have lasted maybe two minutes at the most. Our relationship consists basically of me catching him looking at me.

I'm really sick of this... this is honestly how it always goes for me when a guy seems to be interested in me. Nothing comes of it and I really don't want another anticlimactic ending. I know I'm doing something wrong. But nothing romantic comes naturally to me, so I can't figure it out.

I'm just reading about this about your boy too...you really have to find out what he likes what kind of music or whatever kind of hobby's he has and  get to know as much as possible about the subjects he likes then you have something to talk about....or find out his favorite food then get to talk about it but you are busy and you have to go but you would love to make the food for him so you need his number to get him over at your place to make him his favourite meal.
Or find out about his hobby's or go to a party he is going too and then you ''accidently bump into him'' like Ella said too..That always worked for me...especially at party's when he and you had a drink or two....tension will fade...those are the moments. Or lead the conversation into him needing idk new shoes, or whatever you think he cares for with his looks and then go together for a shopping day.....
You really have to trick the conversation into needing something then do it together....Maybe when you bump into him by lunchtime....say you are so hungry and would love to talk further but need to eat and say maybe you wanna join?
And if its hard to get to know his hobby's then you'd really need to ask him so what do you like to do in your free time?(I'm sure you know better English ways to ask this lol) But you need to know more to socialise and build up something with him.
If you are not that romantic I think thats no problem just be social...just talk talk talk and GET his number thats priority for a shy girl like you...then you can hide behind your telephone while getting more comfortable with him.
I so hope this works out for you!