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http://www.lawsonry.com/tag/breasts/
A good read.
But I wish this actually effected the way I feel about my breasts. I can rationalize all I want and try to convince myself that they are fine the way they are, but when it comes down to it I can't control the obsession I have with wanting to change them!
Know what I mean at all?
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I know exactly how you feel. My breasts are fine, they would produce milk if needed but I'm simply not happy. Apparently, none of us here are, right? If society were different then maybe this wouldn't become such an obsession for some women (I feel as though men developing breasts have different reasons. Maybe not?) but we can't help but be products of our environment. We all want those breasts, that butt and that stomach and I don't see a problem in trying to achieve those goals, as long as we don't let it define who we are as a person.
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thank for sharing it was interessing
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ya, it just sucks. I feel like as women we are just SO objectified. If you are heavier set with curves then you are labeled unhealthy and fat! If naturally thin and lacking curves you are described as having a boyish figure, or looking like a 12 year old. I am so tired of all the judgment. And worse, I feed into it by judging myself! I wish it was different and that I could accept my breasts as they are. Breasts are for milk! And yet I am convinced that they determine how womanly you are. I feel so silly sometimes as a petite, small chested woman--like I won't be taken seriously or be considered womanly/sexy. I feel over looked! But then again, I know I'm the only one truly judging myself. Makes you feel crazy sometimes!
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i dont know if its all society...maybe in some ways i feel manly upto my girlfriends who've had their breast implants and butt lifts lipo blah blah but id never actually want to be filled with plastic i actually cant stand the look of fake boobs if you see them in person they are obvious, but i do love the look of real big boobs im not a lesbian or anything but if i see someone with nice ones i just got to look. Id probably say its a bit of an obsession i want my boobs as big as possible like chiyomilks Japanese blog i dont really know why but i just love the feeling of them starting to fill out i know if i saw them big on me i would be really happy, plus it would be nice if nbe could be more well known so more people could feel better without surgery.
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I know wxactly how all of you feel. I have small breast all my life accept for them being bigger during pregnancy. not just once but four times!! I am a 32aa cup size and while i was pregnant i went up to a full c cup. I am gonna start my program in a few weeks and pray that all my efforts will pay off to have a c cup. my husband is a total sweetheart and says he loves my breast but he is definetly a boobie kind of man. I am so insecure for being small breasted. i dont understand why we have to feel so insecure over breast. I have tried to over come my insecurity about it but i cant.
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That was a very good link there =)
Just to start off...you know how there's a double standard for girls with make up? I have guy friends who always say they hate make up and how they think the most beautiful women are the ones who don't wear make up, then they moan about how they will only date women who look like the ones in magazines. What sorcery is this I ask? lol
I feel there's kinda the same thing with breasts as well. I feel a lot of ppl are in denial or ignorant about photoshop/push up bras/bra inserts/implants etc. on their favourite models, like I used to be as well.
I think I was ignorant because me and all my girl friends didn't wear push up bras or anything cus well, we were still in school! So looking at those pics of models made me feel inferior because I got teased for not looking like that without make up and miracle bras!
Unfortunately, I still think I should be looking perfect when I'm not dressed up 101%.
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Great post!
I have conflicting feelings about NBE because I feel like I am giving in to the societal pressure and making the issue even worse for others that don't have big breasts either, if you know what I mean. And so I am contributing to this endless cycle of big-boob pressure, when I am myself a victim of it. Argh
I do think however that it is a natural thing to want to improve ones appearance... As long as it's not to become a clone of whatever is put on a societal pedestal. I guess what I mean is become an improvement of myself, not based on someone else. Confusing!
But yeah, thanks for the post!
