[AbiDrew85]

Boy,

I go out of town for the weekend and miss all the fun...

Nah. Just watch. He's not gone yet. I'm beginning to wonder where Eve is TBH...

[LookingForward2NBE]

Personally, I disagree with the whole idea of an adult only forum. Young adults need just as much advice and guidance as adults, maybe even more due to their naive nature and peer pressures/insecurities. I for one am continually shocked at how some adults on this forum are soo mean and so blunt with young women who have some real concerns about their body image.

The last thing we would want to happen is for young women to lie about their age and claim their are older then they are and end up messing up hormones.

Sure the approach to NBE is different from some under 20 and over 20 but still, the reasoning and desires are no less real for any 1 person looking for natural enhancement.

[AbiDrew85]

Personally, I disagree with the whole idea of an adult only forum. Young adults need just as much advice and guidance as adults, maybe even more due to their naive nature and peer pressures/insecurities. I for one am continually shocked at how some adults on this forum are soo mean and so blunt with young women who have some real concerns about their body image.

I don't really particularly like the idea either... but we are having exactly some of the issues of age misrepresentation, and a lot of these teens are asking us to give them advice on herbs and supplements that they shouldn't be using yet.

As I said, I don't know what the solution is, but it does get tiring to see time and time again girls under 20 coming on here and demanding help with messing themselves up with dangerous supplementation.

It is usually as easy as pointing them in the right direction instead, but... It'd be so much easier if they just read the warnings and disclaimers and started there in the first place.

Since we really can't MAKE them read... the only other solution seems to be to make at least part of the board adults only.

Perhaps Eve could set it up so it's adults only to post there, but leave it open to public reading.

There has to be something that can be done to dissuade these girls from trying herbs without having to do it one thread at a time. It's the aggravation from that, I think, which causes some of the ladies here to get short with them. I generally just ignore their threads because I don't want to run the risk of getting short.

[TibetanPrincess]

Personally, I disagree with the whole idea of an adult only forum. Young adults need just as much advice and guidance as adults, maybe even more due to their naive nature and peer pressures/insecurities. I for one am continually shocked at how some adults on this forum are soo mean and so blunt with young women who have some real concerns about their body image.

I don't really particularly like the idea either... but we are having exactly some of the issues of age misrepresentation, and a lot of these teens are asking us to give them advice on herbs and supplements that they shouldn't be using yet.

As I said, I don't know what the solution is, but it does get tiring to see time and time again girls under 20 coming on here and demanding help with messing themselves up with dangerous supplementation.

It is usually as easy as pointing them in the right direction instead, but... It'd be so much easier if they just read the warnings and disclaimers and started there in the first place.

Since we really can't MAKE them read... the only other solution seems to be to make at least part of the board adults only.

Perhaps Eve could set it up so it's adults only to post there, but leave it open to public reading.

There has to be something that can be done to dissuade these girls from trying herbs without having to do it one thread at a time. It's the aggravation from that, I think, which causes some of the ladies here to get short with them. I generally just ignore their threads because I don't want to run the risk of getting short.

Agreed! Its because they DON'T read I get short with them and I believe it should be an adult-only forum or at least one side most of the site.

[JTX]

Since most underage visitors and members of this forum are too lazy or impatient to search out threads with pertinent information, why don't we make a specialized thread dedicated to a comprehensive list of NBE products and technics available. Then, list them in age specific applications. No opinions, just a fact sheet for easy reference.

In this way we can also circumvent the need for mass legal disclaimers by having one easy to view thread.

[TibetanPrincess]

Since most underage visitors and members of this forum are too lazy or impatient to search out threads with pertinent information, why don't we make a specialized thread dedicated to a comprehensive list of NBE products and technics available. Then, list them in age specific applications. No opinions, just a fact sheet for easy reference.

In this way we can also circumvent the need for mass legal disclaimers by having one easy to view thread.

Then the sites (that sells these products) might as well pay Eve for advertising on here.

All the info is here. There is no need to do such a thing.

[JTX]

When I referred to a comprehensive list, I was referring to the individual herbs, glandulars & etc. themselves, not the manufacturers. i.e. PM, not Siriporn, Ainterol or any other.

[TibetanPrincess]

When I referred to a comprehensive list, I was referring to the individual herbs, glandulars & etc. themselves, not the manufacturers. i.e. PM, not Siriporn, Ainterol or any other.

I believe we do have a comprehensive list. Its called the "subforums," under herbal breast enhancement section. We have a section that states what herbs do what and so on. They just have to look

Also, the massage techniques are conveniently found right underneath the "herbal breast enhancement" section. Its all there, including the natural foods one can eat to stimulate growth. feel free to ad to them(unless they are locked).

It may not scream, "You lazy teens who don't care to read but want this stuff spoon-fed, come hither," lol. But its all there.

[Luxy]

There's no way of restricting anyone to access this forum and I think it would be unfair but I agree that it's annoying to explain the same things over and over... when I read questions like “ how do I massage?“ in the massage section or “what herb to take ?“ in the herbal BE section I really think that those who still answer are true angels from heaven.

Whats worse than people asking the same question over again is people complaining about it. The simple solution is to not answer them. No one is forcing you to.

Anyway I completely agree with aoz. I also think this age limit thing is ridiculous. I don't think its any of your business policing what teens to on the internet and to their bodys. There is plenty of info telling them to wait until their older. At the end of the day they are going to do whatever they want, and we're not their parents. Secondly this site provides non invasive alternatives like massage and hypnosis, that could be helpful to them, Or perhaps just a place to talk. We don't know them, and we don't know their lives. Maybe they already graduated early so lets not tell them to find 'more important things to do' as that sounds super hypocritical considering you guys are do the exact same thing. Perhaps you should find more important things to do than monitor teens on the internet.

[JTX]

If the teens' parents were doing their jobs, it would be a moot point...

As it is they're not. So, we are. And, we're trying to look out for their best interests, even though it might not seem so. If we didn't care about these kids and their health, there would have been nothing said. While you might not agree with how this is being pursued, give the folks credit for caring.