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I had a conversation about breast size with my friend and her comments really upset me. My friend and I were walking and she made a comment about her boobs. She told me she hates covering up her chest during the winter. I just laughed and said that is silly.
She said I would show off my boobs if I had nice one’s. So, I asked her “why can’t my boobs be nice too? Are you saying I can’t have nice boobs because they are small?” She said “Yes ewww”. Then I told her “Well I like my boobs. She was quite shocked and asked me why on earth would I be happy with small boobs. How is that shocking!?!?! I think small boobs are quite lovely! Mine are small, but perky and round. They are a bit far apart, but I am still happy. I wouldn’t want to have anything bigger than a 32C!
She is a 42D or Double D….I think…..
What do you guys think???
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That was rude of your friend to say to you. I think that as long as you have a nice body overall, small boobs can look great!
I'm thinking of Candice Swanepoel...she's probably an A at best when you finally see her without all the stuffing, but her body is perfection! Catty remark ahead: I'll bet she looks better than your big breasted friend
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Unpadded bikini:
http://bmmoejackson2.files.wordpress.com....jpg?w=620
But she still looks incredible in these artistic nude shots:
http://fashiongonerogue.com/candice-swan...o-vivanco/
Size isn't everything anyway. I'd rather have smaller, nicely shaped boobs than huge saggy ones that hang low.
Of course, I'd pick the best of both worlds if I had the choice
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(07-12-2012, 06:03)BustyBabe Wrote: That was rude of your friend to say to you. I think that as long as you have a nice body overall, small boobs can look great!
I'm thinking of Candice Swanepoel...she's probably an A at best when you finally see her without all the stuffing, but her body is perfection! Catty remark ahead: I'll bet she looks better than your big breasted friend .
Unpadded bikini:
http://bmmoejackson2.files.wordpress.com....jpg?w=620
But she still looks incredible in these artistic nude shots:
http://fashiongonerogue.com/candice-swan...o-vivanco/
Size isn't everything anyway. I'd rather have smaller, nicely shaped boobs than huge saggy ones that hang low.
Of course, I'd pick the best of both worlds if I had the choice .
Her small boobs fit her body perfectly! I don't think my friend could deny how good she looks!
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That is very rude & shocking. I don't understand why she would think that's ok to comment like that. People know its unacceptable to comment on someone's weight, so why is it ok to comment on your breasts? however, someone's weight is easier to control than what god gave you in the boob department.
Another catty comment coming; 42??? Hmmmmm...... If she's your age, she's not looking after her self & small in proportion breasts on a girl with a lovely figure will look better than her. Maybe she feels her breasts are the only asset she has going & needs to put slimmer girls down to feel better.
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It's funny how some people are.
I think it can be boiled down to girls think people care more about that exterior opinion and its almost like how taller women sometimes get better positions than shorter women.
Plain and simple, we are ALL self conscious and have insecurities about our bodies. Some of us take that out on others. So long as the proportion is there... Small boobs are great too. A small frame won't always look "real" persay even if it is 100% natural with huge boobs.
Like I'm so insecure about my chest and yet my fiancé didn't even notice they had shrunk til I started this journey.
And honestly Hippie, your boobs are great on your body as is and I'm sure you'll get to where your happy with them again. You're a 32?? And your friend is a 42? There's a major difference in rib cage size so your friend might just not get the concept of proportionality in breast size to body size.
smh at people who seem to think deeming a small chest isn't nice.
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I understand what you mean BH I had a friend like this who berated me about my chest constantly. She was slim and short also but it took me a long time to realise how insecure she was about herself in every way. So I agree there is an amount of deflection that occurs.
Again, it's shape and proportionality, we women not all, but many of us think guys like big boobs, they don't always. Although most of us are doing it for ourselves rather than a guy, but in my case if I TRULY examine the pathways in black and white, it DOES come down to male attention as well as feeling like a TRUE woman (that's rubbish I know but in my head it's what I think!).
Funnily enough I was at a Xmas party last night and the conversation got onto boobs. Most of the guys interestingly enough kept going on about perky French boobs (I never heard of these before LOL) and how they loved them. So I did have my eyes opened a bit.
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07-12-2012, 17:25
I had someone say some negative things about my body a while back, so I know what your talking about. Envy makes ugly people even uglier. Don't let anything anyone says dictate how you should feel about your body. I was happy with small boobs then, I'm happy with big(ger) breasts now.
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It is not about the size of the boobs, its all about the shape. If any one happy with her her breast then its great. I have seen women with big breast but not fully satisfied. No one has the right to say anything like this.
You should avoid such companionship.
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Too bad, for your friend, that there isn't any surgery or enhancement herbs to help get her a better personality.
Don't listen to that crap. Keep the confidence you have and never let it go.
