[Senno]

Alternately, would you rather that everyone told you they thought you had wonderful breasts, but you still feel they're not good enough... or would you rather walk around feeling like you have perfect breasts, but everyone tells you that you have just the most beautiful flat chest.

Where in the first scenario, you're resisting the awareness that your sense of inadequacy does not stem from your cup size and that to continue focusing on it will waste energy and money and will never result in feeling better about yourself. In the second scenario, you're aware that your chest is not our culture's aesthetic ideal, but you've rejected that in favour of believing they're perfect because that's just a much more comfortable mindset to exist within (if you can find it.)


Changed the thread title. It was misrepresentative.

[Anastasia916]

You focus on nothing but negatives. Saying would you rather live with AAA breasts or be a miserable D is like saying would you rather live without a leg or without an arm. I mean wtf. You are sooo fucking negative it's sickening. It seems all you want to do is tear people apart. Let me guess... you are miserable in your own life in some way, so you want to bring others down with you so you don't feel lonely anymore right? They have groups of people like that that you might fit well with, and they give out free razor blades. Just saying.

[Senno]

They have groups of people like that that you might fit well with, and they give out free razor blades. Just saying.

Wow... and I'm the mean one?

There's nothing wrong with a healthy flat chest if the wearer likes it... is it really that much of a sin here to wonder if out there exist women with flat chests who are happy and feel beautiful. (There are. Pretty sure.)

Do you really think misery is intrinsically equal to not having ideal breasts? I suppose everyone out there with chronic illnesses or worse, more apparent disfigurements are beyond miserable and don't even attempt to be happy and could never be.

My question should not have been perceived as that dangerous...

[natty92]

I don't think this is a very appropriate place to ask on a forum like this, because everybody who joins up obviously has some motivation to want to grow breasts, and indicates that they are not happy with their current size. If everyone was happy having a "beautiful flat chest" then they wouldn't have even considered spending time on this site in the first place.

Stupid question to ask IMO.

[BonitaDDs]

i tell you i was happy as c cup and happy as d cup but i am loving over filling my 34ff cup even more not for culture or men for me to have on my body i was not unhappy or inadequet i dont want 'perfect' i want natural i started nbe out of curiousity and intrest and it really surprised me i am still curious to how big? but i know i would stop if they ever caused me misery
if you want little breast thats upto you but why you on a nbe forum then unless its to Troll

[BonitaDDs]

just saying nbe for me is far from a misery i find it fun and exciting more to see rather than stressing about size i can see how it could be more difficult if you didnt find a method right for you first time or had imbalance but overall most women can gain naturally if they stick to it for a while and this is so rewarding yes it does cost a bit of money but its a tiny amount compared with surgery and much nicer result

[Ever Hopeful]

Ehh, I don't think the OP is a stupid question per se, but it may be directed towards a bias audience, lol. As natty92 mentioned, everyone on here is optimistic (at least initially) at the prospect of breast enhancement. I would guess that no one in these forums (including myself) would be happy "settling" with a flat chest.

At the same time, no one on here is too willing to give in to society's ideal expectations and get a "boob job" - whether it's due to moral reasons, financial reasons, etc. That's why the people on here come up with various types of programs that are pretty much anything -but- plastic surgery. And personally, I can respect that. If I can naturally enhance my boobs as opposed to going under the knife, that would be wonderful.

Personally, I don't see it as living miserably, so long as the person pursing NBE realizes and accepts the fact that boob size doesn't determine everything in life and that it does not reflect who you are as a person. Other than that, I don't really see NBE as a journey full of misery or feelings of never-ending disappointment.

Although I do wonder when "enough is enough." For instance, I just want a pair of boobs that is proportional to my butt size and the rest of my body. So as of now, my goal is a B or C cup size. But how long will that goal last? Once I achieve that goal, will I become obsessed with the idea of getting even bigger boobs? Maybe that's what the OP was alluding to...? If so, it's a rather insightful question.

[Anastasia916]

As the others mentioned, no one is saying there aren't women who are happy being flat chested. And good for them. Also, why did you change the title of this thread? HMMM??? It was "would you rather be a flat chested AAA or a miserable D cup?". That was putting negatives on the D cup and praising AAA's. Now, when I first started I was almost flat chested, so I can relate to both situations. Why is it so hard for you to understand that women can be happy as a D as well???

Point is, you are NOT adding anything to this community. All you are doing is going around talking down to people, calling them fat, and being an asshole. You have not said ONE positive thing since you've been here, so why are you here???

[Mono]

I don't even get the OP point of creating this thread. It makes no sense.

[Ever Hopeful]

Maybe this "Senno" person is being a "devil's advocate" of sorts and making us question the validity and reliability of our NBE methods and knowledge base. I don't really have a problem with anyone questioning these things - even I was a little doubtful of these methods at first - but one has to be really careful with how they word things when dealing with a certain audience... ^^; I haven't been personally offended by anything this poster has said so far. If anything, it reaffirms my motivation to continue with NBE with a more critical eye, lol. Not such a bad thing, really.