[Missed Miss]

In another thread here, one of us was saying that they wore a tight t-shirt and her girls were VERY noticeable, even though they were small (she's still in guy mode), and even though she was around lots of very butch guys, NONE of them said a word about her new growth. It's POSSIBLE, but kinda doubtful, that they were just being nice by not saying anything, so, as I've heard many times that women seem to equate larger breasts with more confidence and there are PLENTY of people just here at BreastNexus, let alone all over the world, that go to GREAT lengths to get bigger breasts, I'm wondering if you women are disappointed if you GO to such trouble to make them grow, but nobody says anything about how much bigger or nicer they may look just because they're trying to be nice to you. Y'know, like, "How much bigger to I have to grow them before somebody notices and says something???"
What are your thoughts on this?

[TibetanPrincess]

In another thread here, one of us was saying that they wore a tight t-shirt and her girls were VERY noticeable, even though they were small (she's still in guy mode), and even though she was around lots of very butch guys, NONE of them said a word about her new growth. It's POSSIBLE, but kinda doubtful, that they were just being nice by not saying anything, so, as I've heard many times that women seem to equate larger breasts with more confidence and there are PLENTY of people just here at BreastNexus, let alone all over the world, that go to GREAT lengths to get bigger breasts, I'm wondering if you women are disappointed if you GO to such trouble to make them grow, but nobody says anything about how much bigger or nicer they may look just because they're trying to be nice to you. Y'know, like, "How much bigger to I have to grow them before somebody notices and says something???"
What are your thoughts on this?

I did nbe for me as I find balance perfection and mildly for the attention of sexy handsome men to attract of course. So I don't care about everyone else's, unless I need to check a biatch that challenges me in that dept.! Lol.
I can tell you, the men really look and and its validating in the sense that you have come so far from where you started. I noticed this the first few months of nbe, being a half cup larger. So think full B cup in a nice bra.


So maybe a natural C, not contained for you males will do it.
Now as with guys (straight) around guys in guy mode with breasts, my hunch is that there are a handful that do notice, but aren't to keen on entertaining the idea that a guy with tits is in front of them. They may want to see you as a full male rather than a female or inbetween, feminine male. In their eyes, you are male, no matter what, so they don't even go there.

Also, its probably more common now, so its not so shocking. Its going to soon come down to how big so and so's are to spark some kind of attention, something to think about.

I'd say if that's the case and it really bothers you, go full on female. It just seems that you'd have to cartoon your results for them to really notice and or say something. In other words, choose an identity sex.

I always thought if I had to choose between a less attractive, ugly female or a hot male, I'd go for the hot male

[Jenniferlove]

The only person I would even feel comfortable with commenting would be my bf and he already has made comments that he NEVER made before I started this journey, such as how voluptuous I am, haha. Granted I had a push-up and low-cut shirt on but the point is I started this far into our relationship and my size was never commented on.

[Missed Miss]

I did nbe for me as I find balance perfection and mildly for the attention of sexy handsome men to attract of course. So I don't care about everyone else's, unless I need to check a biatch that challenges me in that dept.! Lol.
I can tell you, the men really look and and its validating in the sense that you have come so far from where you started. I noticed this the first few months of nbe, being a half cup larger. So think full B cup in a nice bra.

The thing is, as you've said, it IS partly for the attraction of guys, but as soon as guys notice or pay strict attention to the girls in ANY way, women will think them crude and avoid them!

I'd say if that's the case and it really bothers you, go full on female. It just seems that you'd have to cartoon your results for them to really notice and or say something. In other words, choose an identity sex.

Oh, well, that wasn't me I was referring to. Personally, if I could even be so much as a guy with really nice tits, that's be great!!

[Missed Miss]

The only person I would even feel comfortable with commenting would be my bf and he already has made comments that he NEVER made before I started this journey, such as how voluptuous I am, haha. Granted I had a push-up and low-cut shirt on but the point is I started this far into our relationship and my size was never commented on.

I can understand that. Once you're hooked up with someone, no breasty comments and looks are needed or welcomed all that much.

[TibetanPrincess]

I did nbe for me as I find balance perfection and mildly for the attention of sexy handsome men to attract of course. So I don't care about everyone else's, unless I need to check a biatch that challenges me in that dept.! Lol.
I can tell you, the men really look and and its validating in the sense that you have come so far from where you started. I noticed this the first few months of nbe, being a half cup larger. So think full B cup in a nice bra.

The thing is, as you've said, it IS partly for the attraction of guys, but as soon as guys notice or pay strict attention to the girls in ANY way, women will think them crude and avoid them!

I'd say if that's the case and it really bothers you, go full on female. It just seems that you'd have to cartoon your results for them to really notice and or say something. In other words, choose an identity sex.

Oh, well, that wasn't me I was referring to. Personally, if I could even be so much as a guy with really nice tits, that's be great!!

I suppose you could do a little test. Be in male mode around nothing but straight men and then another day somehow surround yourself around those are attracted to feminine males. I would imagine they would easily strike up a conversation or comment about it as they are more open.

[Missed Miss]

I suppose you could do a little test. Be in male mode around nothing but straight men and then another day somehow surround yourself around those are attracted to feminine males. I would imagine they would easily strike up a conversation or comment about it as they are more open.

Well, being in my band for 25 years and wearing a skirt and pantyhose at every gig for the last 20 years, so far, ALL of my male fans were not only okay with that, they DEMANDED that I wear that! Lol. To them, it just wasn't a TWL show without it. A few times I even wore a bra and huge tits (via Nerf balls) and NO ONE seemed to care at all! (Except one or two guys in my band!)
Trying to get around a bunch of fem males is gonna be kinda hard to do. I don't exactly now any, here.
Addendum to my previous comment (being a guy with tits): I don't see anybody begging for societal permission to get tattoos, piercings or any OTHER forms of bodily modifications, so, I fail to see how it would make a difference to anyone if a guy decided to grow his own tits OR if he got a sex change!!

[TibetanPrincess]

Awesome! I guess its just not that big of a deal period. I just know with me, I get much more stares upstairs from the straight men. I have never known that world! They arent saying anything but they don't care to be discrete about looking at them either. I guess its just the way it is.

I remember seeing a regular gal with large breasts and I approached her like nothing and complimented her, she revealed they were fakes! I couldn't believe it. I guess if it were a ladyboy or trans, Id just assume they were fakes ( back then) not bother to comment, but it wouldn't mean they went unnoticed or that they weren't nice. But if it were now, I'd prob be that one broad that says "did you grow yours? They're fantastic!"

So maybe that's what it is, just politeness or out of respect? I'd say perhaps a handful of them, while the others just see you as they wish? I doubt the straight men and even women don't know about NBE.

[Missed Miss]

I remember seeing a regular gal with large breasts and I approached her like nothing and complimented her, she revealed they were fakes! I couldn't believe it.

See? Now, if I did that, chances are, I'd get slapped and/or arrested!!
Part of the time, these days, when I'm looking at a girls tits, at LEAST half of me is saying to myself, "BOY, I wish I had tits like those!!!!" I know it LOOKS like I'm being a perv (if they catch me looking), but, most of the time, I'm actually "window shopping"!

[TibetanPrincess]

I remember seeing a regular gal with large breasts and I approached her like nothing and complimented her, she revealed they were fakes! I couldn't believe it.

See? Now, if I did that, chances are, I'd get slapped and/or arrested!!
Part of the time, these days, when I'm looking at a girls tits, at LEAST half of me is saying to myself, "BOY, I wish I had tits like those!!!!" I know it LOOKS like I'm being a perv (if they catch me looking), but, most of the time, I'm actually "window shopping"!

Well, actually, she was checking me out at that one store "Windsor" in the mall with all the fancy dresses. It was in the middle of the purchase.

Lol, yeah, I wouldn't recommend cold approaching.