[AbiDrew85]

In short, I want bigger boobs because at least four people have told me I can't have them. And because of that, now I have to and I will have big boobs. They told me I cant. I'll show them I can.

Is this an unhealthy way of choosing and achieving goals? Yeah. It is. But I don't care. At least I'm being productive.

I'm the SAME WAY! You want me to do something, the best way is to tell me I can't. It can't be joking, and you can't be trying reverse psychology though, it doesn't work that way. You have to literally truly believe I can't and tell me so. And if it's something I wouldn't really mind doing or even already want to do, I'll go even beyond just to prove I can.

[Saemi]

Hi! This is my first post even though i read a lot of this forum.

So...why do I want bigger breasts? Because they look great and they would make me feel so much sexier. Even though I'm a D(large C),because of my large frame they don't look big at all. I like how big wide boobies look on smaller girls...so because i can't change my shoulders...i will grow my boobs.
And another reason is because i know it is possible, so i don't wanna miss this chance.

[EllaC]

My husband is tall dark and handsome and wonderfull *flutters eyelashes* ha ha I just want bigger ones so I dont haveeee to wear pushup bras to look abit curvy and so he will be proud to show me off :s plus i want them to feel sexier. And shamefully so I dont feel so inadequate at work where theres posters and calendars of big boobed bloody women all over the place :p I can only get away with making them "disapere*.. for a while longer lol

[TibetanPrincess]

I hated when some gals tried to make me feel inferior to them because I was very small. In their minds, I could never have what they have. Hahaha hahaha hahahahahah, now I do! (I sing so proudly). My brother's ex would be so shocked if she saw me with them! My cousin used to make fun of me when we were kids though she is totally cool afterward even when I was small, but now she's bug eyed, "wow I was gonna say, you grew!"

I think its sweet icing on the cake when you see someone from your past who treated you that way (of course, they had huge ones) and then see their reaction when they see you a cup size bigger then them! Oh

[Missed Miss]

I hated when some gals tried to make me feel inferior to them because I was very small. In their minds, I could never have what they have.

I'm REALLY sorry, hun!! That's VERY sad, cruel and incredibly infantile!! That's a form of discrimination!! I can only imagine that they told you things like, you'll never get a boyfriend because your tits are too small. Some guy LIKE and PREFER small tits!! Most guys, the ones that use their hearts and not their eyes, don't give a rats ass if you have large or small tits!! They love you for YOU, NOT the size of your bra!!
Anyway, this episode reminds me of my ex-fiancé, who is Indian, and, she told me a few times how even her own MOTHER used to laughingly make fun of her when she was still a very little girl by telling her that, because she was so dark nobody would EVER want to marry her!! Apparently, in India, having darker skin makes you worthless, or not very attractive, or something. When I first laid eyes on her, I thought she was GORGEOUS!!!!
And, just so you know, even though she has nice looking set of C cups, because she always wore very loose clothes, you couldn't even tell she had tits!! She said she didn't even want tits because they only attracted unwanted attention, so, she didn't wear stuff that made them pronounced.
Anyway, it's nice to know that you eventually got them nice and big. :-) But, seriously, hun, it REALLY doesn't matter!!
Take care!!

[TibetanPrincess]

You are so right! Many guys love small perky breasts. That I do know. But since I am doing this journey for me, I could less! They'll have to take my tig-o-biddies!
I know it was just the insecurity of many females then, as I did have the pretty face at least. When the guys liked me, they wondered to the heavens "what so good about her? She has no boobs?" When I heard that, I turned around and they just looked at each other! I just remember feeling like crap. Man, am I happy I didn't have them then, don't think I'd know how to handle being a young woman as I was more of a tomboy and didn't know what real beauty was.

I hated when some gals tried to make me feel inferior to them because I was very small. In their minds, I could never have what they have.

I'm REALLY sorry, hun!! That's VERY sad, cruel and incredibly infantile!! That's a form of discrimination!! I can only imagine that they told you things like, you'll never get a boyfriend because your tits are too small. Some guy LIKE and PREFER small tits!! Most guys, the ones that use their hearts and not their eyes, don't give a rats ass if you have large or small tits!! They love you for YOU, NOT the size of your bra!!
Anyway, this episode reminds me of my ex-fiancé, who is Indian, and, she told me a few times how even her own MOTHER used to laughingly make fun of her when she was still a very little girl by telling her that, because she was so dark nobody would EVER want to marry her!! Apparently, in India, having darker skin makes you worthless, or not very attractive, or something. When I first laid eyes on her, I thought she was GORGEOUS!!!!
And, just so you know, even though she has nice looking set of C cups, because she always wore very loose clothes, you couldn't even tell she had tits!! She said she didn't even want tits because they only attracted unwanted attention, so, she didn't wear stuff that made them pronounced.
Anyway, it's nice to know that you eventually got them nice and big. :-) But, seriously, hun, it REALLY doesn't matter!!
Take care!!

[lostacres6]

I've had small breasts all my life. My husband of 32 years met me & married me with small breasts. He said he was attracted to me by my "beautiful blue eyes" & even today says he doesn't care about how big or small my breasts are. But ALL men gawk at big breasts - it's human nature. Most of all women celebrities have had implants but it doesn't seem to make men less interested in "fake" breasts. SO what if ALL women had the same size & shape breasts - 40 DD or 32 AA? Would men still be drawn to look at women's breasts? Would there be less porn, less slut movies, less infidelity? I wonder....
In the past 3 years when I mistakedly found NBE & this forum, I've been obsessed with finally trying to grow my breasts. Maybe it was "turning 60" that made me feel less attractive, less sexy, etc. But now that's my whole focus. The kids & grandkids are gone so what else do I have to dwell on? I don't know if or when I'll ever achieve my desires but in the meantime, I'm going at it full steam.

[EllaC]

I've had small breasts all my life. My husband of 32 years met me & married me with small breasts. He said he was attracted to me by my "beautiful blue eyes" & even today says he doesn't care about how big or small my breasts are. But ALL men gawk at big breasts - it's human nature. Most of all women celebrities have had implants but it doesn't seem to make men less interested in "fake" breasts. SO what if ALL women had the same size & shape breasts - 40 DD or 32 AA? Would men still be drawn to look at women's breasts? Would there be less porn, less slut movies, less infidelity? I wonder....
In the past 3 years when I mistakedly found NBE & this forum, I've been obsessed with finally trying to grow my breasts. Maybe it was "turning 60" that made me feel less attractive, less sexy, etc. But now that's my whole focus. The kids & grandkids are gone so what else do I have to dwell on? I don't know if or when I'll ever achieve my desires but in the meantime, I'm going at it full steam.

hi lotsa. agreed. like me at work, having to stare at big boobed women all day long plastered over the walls makes me want to leave I tell you! ive never expressed my want to increase mine but I suspect my hubby has an inkling. he pays a lot of attention to them at the appropriate times though so makes me feel good even though they are small! that said il have to admit, he looks at me a lot more attentively when I wear a push up bra and show them off then when I don't wear one at all and look flat so even though he's never said anything to me bad about the size of my boobies I think he would appreciate them if they were just a little bigger!

What are you trying??

[Missed Miss]

I think it's just a kind of quantitative freak out. For instance, you have something, anything at all, that's just an ordinary normal size, then, one day, you see another of them that's either huge or very small and you can't really help but look at it in wonder. "WOW!! Look at the tires on THAT truck!!" Well, it's the same with tits.
Also, anthropologically speaking, we used to walk around on all 4's like simians still do, so, the one thing that attracted a male to female was her ass. Once we learned to walk erect, her ass was no longer in our face, so, breasts grew to take the place of the ass. They DO look similar! So, the girls ARE there for purposes of sexual attraction! Nature is just doing it's part to help keep the species alive and all women can do is complain about guys looking at what naturally is very attractive to them.

[Zormad]

I think it's just a kind of quantitative freak out. For instance, you have something, anything at all, that's just an ordinary normal size, then, one day, you see another of them that's either huge or very small and you can't really help but look at it in wonder. "WOW!! Look at the tires on THAT truck!!" Well, it's the same with tits.
Also, anthropologically speaking, we used to walk around on all 4's like simians still do, so, the one thing that attracted a male to female was her ass. Once we learned to walk erect, her ass was no longer in our face, so, breasts grew to take the place of the ass. They DO look similar! So, the girls ARE there for purposes of sexual attraction! Nature is just doing it's part to help keep the species alive and all women can do is complain about guys looking at what naturally is very attractive to them.

First, I think you meant biologically...not anthropologically...Actually, there are tons of cultures that don't have the same breast fixation that Americans and some Europeans do. There are a few theories floating around as to why that is but they haven't settled for one yet. Some feel its the dichotomy between simultaneously hiding them away like a prized possession (daily lives) and presenting them on a platter (the media). Cultures where breasts are exposed in daily life don't have the same view of breasts. Funny because, anthropologically speaking, they live closer to the way our genetic ancestors did than we in the "civilized" world.

I can assure you though, breasts grew to feed young...not to attract males ha haha. Its that mind set that prevents women from being able to breast feed in public (what they are supposed to be used for). Biologically speaking, breast obsession makes no sense because essentially breasts are baby food and not actually a sexual object.