[Lux]

Hello! I don't mean to feel down on my first post, I still smile! =)

Here's my emotional rant lol =p Just something to get off my chest (oh pun)

I usually don't let what other people say get to me, let alone do things to rectify whatever they think is wrong with me. So at first I thought I was doing this because I myself wanted to just be given a challenge, fit my bras better, change my look for the lolz...
I mean, whats the difference between NBE and tanning, wearing heels or plucking eyebrows? Neither alternative (small or large breasted, tanned or pale, short or tall, natural thick or sharp thin eyebrows, is actually 'better').

But, why does it hurt so much - if not, the most - to be teased about breast size?

Does anyone else struggle with the fact that they are solely doing this because of being teased by people etc.? These people don't know it, but it got to me so much!

I guess it's because most of my close friends are guys and I know they don't *entirely* mean it when they openly obsess about girls with large breasts but it happens A LOT and it gets annoying tbh. I also play video games with them and obviously all the girls in those games are skinny with F cup boobs. Yes, I'm so insecure, fictional characters can upset me lol.

I thought I just needed some empathy and some advice to 'get over' this. I really wish I am doing NBE for myself, and not for the opinions of a bunch of guys.

I feel particularly bad because I do have an amazing boyfriend and he thinks my breasts are the perfect shape and size.
(aaand the reason he is amazing isn't because he thinks the body part I'm most insecure about is great, though that would be a good bribe for the 'best bf award' lol, - he simply is too sweet!)

xx

[tempestuous]

I know where you're coming from, as I've had people make snide remarks about my small breasts, too. To top it off, my breasts never developed properly - they're tuberous and assymetrical. This led me to getting implants/ a benelli lift in an attempt to correct it, but here I am a couple years later, with my original triangle boobs just sitting on top of the implants. I want to remove them - they're grotesque and don't really serve their purpose. It took all this to get me to realize I have to be thankful for what I have. I went up to a D with implants and the big size gets on my nerves. I'm really a girl who's supposed to have modestly sized breasts. I'm just here to try to round out my breasts a little - for me.

It's very good that you've got a sweet BF - don't let him get away He sounds like mine.

[smallboobs]

i'm only 12 and i am getting teased alot in skl at the moment for my small breasts , i know i'm only young and that they are still growing but the thing that annoys me the most is that they are not the same size ! i wear a bra but you can clearly see by looking that they are uneven !

[sunnydayz]

I hear ya! This summer my cousin's bf said he had bigger breasts than me and my bf's friend asked me why I don't get my bf to buy me some.

[PerkyD's]

I haven't exactly been teased openlly, but girls at my school have commented on my small breasts. I underrstand being jealous of fictional girls lol. Most of them do have huge boobs.

I'm not ss self conscious about my boobss anymore. Comments that would upset me I just laugh it off

[Strumpet]

If I hadn't been teased, I might have grown up a bit insecure about them anyway because of the way large breasts are presented in the media, but being teased definitely played an impact.

For my whole life women (never men) have teased me about them, from as innocuous to "you don't really need a bra" to "it doesn't look right for a woman to not have digits (tits and ass)... it's really unnatural." Almost every day through middle and junior high school I had to put up with this s***. High school, less so just because I cut myself off from everybody, but even today I'll get comments like "Why do your breasts look big today? I know you don't have boobs." if I wear so much as a push-up bra. I have some major A-Cup Angst, LOL.

I know what you mean about being jealous of fictional girls.. especially in those final fantasy games because they're so pretty and perfect looking and then they have perfect bodies... I just try to avoid looking at that stuff because it messes me around.

[Lux]

I know what you mean about being jealous of fictional girls.. especially in those final fantasy games because they're so pretty and perfect looking and then they have perfect bodies... I just try to avoid looking at that stuff because it messes me around.

When it's the holidays I play a bit of video games with my friends nearly every day lol, so it messes with my head like everyday!

I finally went back to uni after a long holiday, it wasn't for class, it was just some conference I had to go to. Met up with friends I hadn't seen in a while then BAM all they talked about were big boobs and physics, then they complained about having to face me everyday and not that bigboobed chick from another course.

[Strumpet]

Ugh, it sounds like your friends are jerks. I wouldn't hang with them anymore if I were you. It's just toxic to be with people who make you feel weird or excluded.

[Malina]

I think we're all insecure. Your friends included. People tend to pick on other people because it takes attention away from their short comings, at least for the moment and at least in their minds.

I'm 31 years old, I was teased quite a bit when I was younger about it. Well, it mostly came from boys who liked me though. Never from other girls, at least never to my face. As I got older that definitely went away. No one makes me feel bad about my body now, but that feeling of deficiency stayed, I guess. I do think that I'm doing this for myself.

The worst one was when I was 14, and this boy told me I was as flat as a boy when he saw me in a bathing suit. The next in line came from my ex. I broke up with him, and after I made it very clear it wasn't going to happen, he wrote me an email about how he's hooking up with a girl who has "much bigger tits" than me. What I was told when I was 14 hurt my feelings, it's like others could see what I hoped was only an issue for me. What happened with my ex was mildly comical because my overall level of confidence was much higher.

I do think that hurtful remarks come from insecurity.

[kipper]

I was teased a little bit in high school, mostly cause I hung out with guys and guys pay each other out and I was seen as another guy But recently i made a good friend over the internet (i was 21 at the time, he was 17) and i showed him my photos of trip to the beach and I had 1 photo of myself with a fish i caught in my bikini and his first comment was "haha you're flat chested" and that just took me back to high school and it made me really depressed .. especially from someone younger than me. My lack of self esteem really affects me & current relationship as well, to the point where i don't want to have sex because my body looks awful and i don't want to see any of it.. even though we share the bathroom get dressed around each other etc etc.. bah !!