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Dear...women, lol I am just curious as to how many of you would actually discard the possibility of dating or being with a male who had breasts? I know this is a vague questions cause "what one may hate another may love" but I only assume that it destroys a high percentage to find a great woman or at least have a lot of options.
I am 28 and do well for myself, I am not a crossdresser nor trans, but for whatever odd ridiculous reason I had always wanted breasts. I dont know why, just always have since a kid. But far as other feminine traits go, none whatsoever, I actually body build and am a steel worker etc. Not feminine by any means. Anyways, I digress, just always pondered the question and thought I'd ask here since obviously this is the sole mission for any of us here, to grow larger breasts.
I promised myself if my relationship ended (which sadly it did, 3 years gone over nothing) that I would jump start in to this. I have been a lurker for quite some time and know with this comes a lot mroe than just breast growth and I'm okay with that. Just curious as to though a womans honest opinion on a male with obvious breasts, not C cups or anything but maybe larger a smaller b cups, still concealable but obvious without a shirt..
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To be honest, I would never date a guy with breasts.
But I'm 10 years younger than you.
I know many men who have that "fat/beer titties" when they're older and nobody cares about it.. But then on the other side most of them are married.
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This is sort of a difficult question because you never know until you're in that situation.
If my husband told me tomorrow that he wanted to grow breasts would I love him through it? I'd like to hope so. However, I know that nbe usually uncovers deeper gender identity issues. Growing breasts is just the tip of the iceberg. I think being on this site would make me a lot more open minded because I love everyone on here so dearly and there seem to be a lot of really good and doting husbands. I'm not saying just growing breasts isn't possible while staying strictly masculine though.
That being said from a sexuality standpoint I don't think I could do it. If I were single and a man came up to me and was 75 percent Johnny Depp and 15 percent Scarlett Johansson (you know which 15 I mean lol), I don't think I would be able to be attracted to him. I'm bisexual but I am either attracted to masculine men like my bearded hubby, or very feminine females. However there are plenty of people out there who are pansexual and are attracted to any and all orientations, gender-identities, and biological sexes out there. I recently met a woman whose husband was very obviously going through transitioning to a women despite the fact that when I first met him he was very much a man. They have two kids together. She loved him just as much as she did the first time I saw them out and he was in full faced makeup at that point.
Basically what I'm saying is that there is someone out there for everyone and don't get discouraged. Good luck with your nbe
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Well like echapman said I am mostly attracted to very masculine men or feminine women like my man now I love that his body is all hard and muscles and mine is soft and curvaceous he love it too.
But I heard quite a few men say their women enjoyed their breasts though so as long so its better to be yourself and grow breasts if you want I'm sure a lot of women wouldnt mine and some would appreciate breasts on a male.
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I think it's all to personal preferences. Honestly, I would be pretty jealous if he has bigger boobs than I do. Lol.
I have never been attracted to buffy guys. Buffy in a sense that he had well toned body, nice biceps, thick toned shoulders, imagine body builder is a huge turn off for me.
Like mentioned above I am sure there will be a special someone who will accept you as you are.
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I would love to date a guy with modest breasts! I don't know about bigger ones, but those would probably be fine, too. I'm not really into muscle, though.
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I wouldn't mind as long as he's a good man I don't like muscles either but I am not confident about my own body so I wouldn't want a man other women would want to take.
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gratzie on the replies ladies, to those talking abotu masculine men. I am shy over 10% body fat and am quite muscular, mys tomach needs work due to my pizza and ice cream love lol but the rest is solid muscle well defined. I meet a lot of girls who don't dig the shaved legs portion of my body but when they see the definition in my legs they usualy go oooo nevermind lol amazing what muscle can do to alter ones opinions, perhaps women aren't that much deeper than men when it comes to looks lol
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I thought of something one main problem for me if a man I was with took female hormones or pm is that I need a lot of sex and I hear a lot of you say it reduces want or ability for that.
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(18-06-2014, 07:47)BonitaDDs Wrote: I thought of something one main problem for me if a man I was with took female hormones or pm is that I need a lot of sex and I hear a lot of you say it reduces want or ability for that.
The performance reduction does seem to be a common theme. I often wonder if it's occurrence is psychological, age, or something else related. I say this because I have had no problems with my wife in bed even when on upwards of 4000 mg a day of PM. I'm only thirty years old though. How would you feel if it didn't reduce his performance?
