05-03-2017, 03:26 AM
(04-03-2017, 03:14 PM)psychodelic Wrote: I used to have an ed And I remember being in high school and people would say things like "oh you would be attractive if you only had boobs" and my friend once called my breasts "tea cups", I still haven't forgotten.
Point is. You aren't a lone. People can be callous. But it's most likely a reflection of their own insecurities and they see your body as an easy target.
I also had small boobs. For years I told myself big boob would make me happy. So I commuted myself to NBE. I grew from a B cup and I'm currently a DD cup, and I'll tell you now.. I am still unhappy, insecure and dysphoric.
I think no matter what, if you have emotional wounds inside you.. you can alter your external appearance forever. But you will never be satisfied. That's how I feel about it anyway.
We all do, I guess.
There is a saying in spanish " Find out your fears so no one can use them against you" - I think that is something we should learn.
I have had insecurities with my body since I was a kid - people used to pick on me cause I am petite and thin . They used to call me "weak" for my physical appearance.