[dreamergirl]

Oh Dreamergirl!

How are things going?

Hugs

Bobbi

It's strange that you posted this an hour ago, I just got an urge to visit the site after not visiting in a long time!

I still hate my body and I haven't been seeing much progress but I've started to try and accept myself more.

I still wish to live in a world where small boobs are considered sexy and attractive by the majority.

[Happyme]

I guess you got the mental call across the cosmos to check your thread.

I'm very happy your learning to accept what nature has given you!

Not every man or woman is totally infatuated with large breasts.

Just focus on being happy and all good things will come to you.

Happy Easter too.

Huggs Bobbi

[hannah]

Hi dreamergirl,

I wanted to add something to these wise words from Happy me : '' Not every man or woman is totally infatuated with large breasts ''...this is so true.
We are so much more then large breasts alone or a pretty face alone...behind these features sits a character and thats what matters in life and in relationships.

Somebody can fall for such features, but to really bond and making a connection with other people you won't make it only because you have big breasts.

And also in personal life I have the experience that man can fall for all kinds of women. There is no such thing as one sort of beauty. I know this al sounds very cliché..but sometimes life is. We need to keep it simple in order to stay mentally sane and stabile. 
But imagine going to a garden center you'll find all kinds of different beauties...you wouldnt pick one and the same plant or tree for your whole garden right?
I know that small chested women can be just as attractive as larger breasted women.
My BF is really pretty, he fell for me when I had no hips no butt and no tits..lol. I gained hips from giving birth so be happy if you dont have hips right now it means that yours will be just fine after birth instead of even larger it will look like you're wearing a pool float!

[dreamergirl]

Hi dreamergirl,

I wanted to add something to these wise words from Happy me : '' Not every man or woman is totally infatuated with large breasts ''...this is so true.
We are so much more then large breasts alone or a pretty face alone...behind these features sits a character and thats what matters in life and in relationships.

Somebody can fall for such features, but to really bond and making a connection with other people you won't make it only because you have big breasts.

And also in personal life I have the experience that man can fall for all kinds of women. There is no such thing as one sort of beauty. I know this al sounds very cliché..but sometimes life is. We need to keep it simple in order to stay mentally sane and stabile. 
But imagine going to a garden center you'll find all kinds of different beauties...you wouldnt pick one and the same plant or tree for your whole garden right?
I know that small chested women can be just as attractive as larger breasted women.
My BF is really pretty, he fell for me when I had no hips no butt and no tits..lol. I gained hips from giving birth so be happy if you dont have hips right now it means that yours will be just fine after birth instead of even larger it will look like you're wearing a pool float!

I appreciate the comments and good intentions but I should make it clear I am not trying to attract a male partner! Or any type of partner into my life... 
If a man could fall for me isn't my problem. It already happens for my "personality".

I just want to feel like I am seen as a woman and not a lesser woman. That's all.

[hannah]

Hi dreamergirl,

I wanted to add something to these wise words from Happy me : '' Not every man or woman is totally infatuated with large breasts ''...this is so true.
We are so much more then large breasts alone or a pretty face alone...behind these features sits a character and thats what matters in life and in relationships.

Somebody can fall for such features, but to really bond and making a connection with other people you won't make it only because you have big breasts.

And also in personal life I have the experience that man can fall for all kinds of women. There is no such thing as one sort of beauty. I know this al sounds very cliché..but sometimes life is. We need to keep it simple in order to stay mentally sane and stabile. 
But imagine going to a garden center you'll find all kinds of different beauties...you wouldnt pick one and the same plant or tree for your whole garden right?
I know that small chested women can be just as attractive as larger breasted women.
My BF is really pretty, he fell for me when I had no hips no butt and no tits..lol. I gained hips from giving birth so be happy if you dont have hips right now it means that yours will be just fine after birth instead of even larger it will look like you're wearing a pool float!

I appreciate the comments and good intentions but I should make it clear I am not trying to attract a male partner! Or any type of partner into my life... 
If a man could fall for me isn't my problem. It already happens for my "personality".

I just want to feel like I am seen as a woman and not a lesser woman. That's all.

You are not beeing seen as a woman perhaps because of your attitude. Big breast dont say hey thats a real woman. Man wil only see it as meat on you..nice fuckmeat..lol. But seriously you give a lot of credits to big breasts. But imo you need to work on other aspects of yourself.. You have a third leg on your back thats kicking your butt all day. Sure that will hurt dreamergirl..
Start with seeing yourself as full. As complete already. There must be some other nice assets about you right. Bigger breasts will not make you more woman. It is your belief. And the belief of many dumb people.. Those dumber people will never be happy or give you credit. If they dont take you the way you are now...they will not treat you any better with bigger breasts.
You cant keep up with torturing yourself.
I understand you will feel better with bigger breasts..especially in clothing. But breasts dont seem to grow overnight. So in the meanwhile you should really change your perspective. Youll get crazy.. I guess it works against you in daily life..causing much struggle. There is no way out atm. Other then changing your perspective or do lipofilling or implants.

[koyasha]

[quote="Nefertity" pid='209098' dateline='1606739505']

Koyasha I checked your picture and I have to say I was surprised by how good your breasts look compared to how you describe them??? I see the size difference and I understand why you want to correct that (my breasts are not the same size either, I think it’s actually more common than having exactly same sized boobs?) but I would have NEVER known your breast are tubular?! Perhaps there is a spectrum and your case is mild, but the tubular boobs I’ve seen has a very think base with most breast tissue in the areola/nipple which then appears puffy and larger then the breast itself. It’s very hard to describe but I’m talking areola being like 60-80% of the breast. Your areolas are so pretty and Your breasts just appears to have more upper tissue than underboob which is the case for many women. Consistent Pumping can definitely correct size difference.

I’m not saying it to make you feel better (even if I hope you do..!) and if I’m crossing some sort of line here I apologize, I know you didn’t post to get your boobs rated by anyone. Of course what matters is how YOU feel about your body. Just sharing my genuine reaction and hoping maybe it gives you perspective or something.

I grew up with a narcissistic mother who called me ugly so I’ll always have a problem with my face, but like you both describe I’m against surgery because I would feel “false”. I don’t even own a push up bra because I don’t want to fool anyone. How ever I think those opinions are soon to be considered old fashioned. At my last job I had many colleagues younger than me and I was chocked to learn how many of them had boob jobs and would get lip fillers periodically like it’s nothing more than a manicure. And the beauty industry is only growing. At least it seems natural options are developing more. I’ve decided to save up to get acid treatments for my acne scars, and made peace with having a fat transfer if NBE for some reason won’t deliver the results I want.

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Nefertity, I haven't been very active here and I totally missed your post. I know you wrote this several years ago, but I want to thank you so much for your nice words <3

Boob jobs are such a normal thing these days. I don't have a lot of female friends, but one of them got a boob job last year (I believe it was either 425 or 475cc) and another is thinking about getting a lift with implants. 
I am sorry to hear about the way your mother treated you, how are the two of you getting along today?
Did you end up getting the treatment for your acne scars or a fat transfer?
How are you doing? 

How is everyone doing?